we married at an early age,i was 18 then,everything was so perfect..until i caught him cheating on me thru his cell,i forgive him..but nothing change..we are 3 years living together..and it seems that hes also cheating in me for 3 years,these past days,i found a number on his cp named after a man but i read the txt messg.like txt me when your at work,,bla..bla..i love you..and the number is even calling him when im not home(coz im working 2) or he is at work..he said he loves me and our daughter..but it can get out of my head...and i know its really bad to think bad things when your preggy(im 3 months pregnant)should i forgive him for the sake of our marriage and the kids?is he really cheating on me?
2007-11-15 13:59:45 · 19 answers · asked by nhery21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
read the question that mike j asked 35-40 minutes ago on page 2 of answers...same type of thing...doesn't sound innocent.
2007-11-15 14:05:04 · answer #1 · answered by laura1977 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me he is cheating...I know you are in a very bad place in your life now, but the quicker he leaves the better off you will be. I found out the hard way that staying in a marriage like this for children was a big mistake....Children can not hold a marriage together ...Once a cheater always a cheater. I forgave once and wish I didn't it hurts twice as much. You can do this....I have been single 22 years..single mom..I own a beautiful 4 bedroom home..2 cars..great career..sent all 3 of my children to college...YOU CAN TO
2007-11-15 22:14:09 · answer #2 · answered by wilma s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he is cheating. From what you say, it has been several times. For me, my husband has cheated once and he knows that if it ever happens again that I would leave and take the kids with me. It's one thing to forgive once but, to keep forgiving......Sounds like he knows you won't leave and therefore he can get away with it.
Good Luck!!!
2007-11-15 22:38:19 · answer #3 · answered by K_A_mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it sounds like he is cheating on you. And probably isn't going to stop. You deserve better than that. Just because you are pregnant doesn't mean that you have to put up with it.
2007-11-15 22:04:19 · answer #4 · answered by sunnysideup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is gonna sound hard and insensitive but, what proof do you have on his cheating? ( If you filed for divorce, the judge will ask you for it, up front) Also, he seems to be your first love by the way you are describing your feelings to him towards us. From my calculations, dump him fast!!!!
2007-11-15 22:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by Hello Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to believe him- it is very possible that you are more suspicious because of pregnancy hormones. Maybe counseling would be a good idea. Many churches provide this service for free.
2007-11-15 22:04:16 · answer #6 · answered by livewithoutfear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man you should leave him..thats not even cool. Hes cheating. Hes not going to stop either. once a cheater, always a cheater. unless they really really want to change.
2007-11-15 23:07:15 · answer #7 · answered by ♥xChannel. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happened to me with my partner and my cousin who hide was secretly married texting smsing flirting with my partner i kicked her out of my life but my partner who told me the truth wanted to work it out lets see how that goes
2007-11-15 22:10:31 · answer #8 · answered by bodymindheartsoulunion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course he is cheating on u, and its hard to face it when your pregnant and so vulnerable. the facts kind of speak for their self. when we first find out were kind of in this denial thing, but if your finding things, theres no reason to deny its happening. sometimes we have to face things, even when its hard to do.
2007-11-15 22:07:11 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if someone is sending him texts like that yes....he is cheating ...upto you if you are going to put up with that...i personaly would leave or kick him to the curb....congrats on your pregnency by the way........... his behaviour would be the last thing you need right now ....take care
2007-11-15 22:07:21 · answer #10 · answered by jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋