Always angry as she gets home from work, (i'm tired),gets angry when i 4get 2 put the toilet seat down, gets angry if i 4get 2 pull trash out........
2007-11-15 13:20:34 · 11 answers · asked by whiz_bons 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are four signs of someone who is trying to control you.
1. If you don't comply with what they want, they start name
calling.
If this doesn't work, it's on to:
2. Guilt tripping.
If this doesn't work, then it's on to:
3. Anger.
If this doesn't work, then it's on to the ultimate battle for
control:
4. Abandonment or the threat of abandonment.
Stand up for yourself. You are the head of the house hold, not her.
2007-11-15 16:38:24 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the angry one. My fiance got really fed up with me always being angry until I explained it to him. Its a two part thing....a) i need some quiet time where I don't have to talk to him or worry about anything so maybe when you first get home just be silent for an hour b) secondly, I was mad cuz he never did any of the household chores without me asking him to....maybe u just need to do some housework and she will appreciate it and be happier. Finally, you could just ask her if something else is bothering her.
2007-11-15 13:48:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am dealing with this issue with my bf but he is the one that is always angry. There is more than meets the eye. You need to talk about what is really bothering her. Until both of you have a chance to clear the air in a nice normal conversation without accusations, things will not change.
2007-11-16 06:15:14 · answer #3 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to not make her angry as much as possible. Listen to her when she tells you something, there is a reason she is angry. Unless she has always been this way?? I know lately since I started a hectic job I've been angrier than usual, and I'm usually kind and happy, so sometimes when we women are overwhelmed, we have a shorter fuse. I try to be nice to my husband at all times though.
2007-11-15 13:25:19 · answer #4 · answered by Brittney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and find out what is happening at her workplace. Try to understand her needs and get her on holiday. Maybe by giving her sometime off from work could relax her mind. Put an effort to do what she wants because going against her while she is angry may blow up your marriage.
2007-11-15 13:29:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well she needs to go ahead and get over the toilet seat thing. as far as the trash and other little chores...if you are constantly forgetting I'd be annoyed too (not angry, but annoyed). As long as she's not working you to death at home write notes to remind you and just get them done...problem solved...hopefully.
2007-11-15 13:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by laura1977 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooph... I feel for you man. Anger issues drive me crAAAAzy.
I know one cool tip is that when someone is raising their voice at you, if you respond with a quiet little mouse voice then they will lower their voice in response. It's a weird human nature thing. If she yells, then you yell... you're in a fight. IF you want to avoid it, then remain calm and patient.
Also it wouldn't hurt to put the seat down from time to time. ;)
2007-11-15 13:36:52 · answer #7 · answered by Mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be dormant. Keep a smile on your face even though you feel like shooting her. JUst wait that way..............she will simmer down and be back with you.
This has not always worked. If you do find a solution, do let me know buddy
2007-11-19 12:18:38 · answer #8 · answered by charlesglen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to her nicely and ask her if you're always angry with her, would she be happy? and maybe you should help out with more house chores so she doesn't feel she has to ask you everyday about the same things.
2007-11-15 13:25:05 · answer #9 · answered by xyz 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
be somewhere else when she gets home. tell her you don't like to be around angry people.
2007-11-15 13:24:38 · answer #10 · answered by the answer is within you 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋