My wife was on business in Japan for nine weeks. It was really hard for me because we've barely been apart more than three or four days since we got together over six years ago.
I obviously "took care of myself" a few times (okay several) in her absence, but I DID NOT CHEAT ON HER.
When she got back from Japan and we had sex the first time in nine weeks, I didn't ejaculate right away. I don't know why -- I was really horny and I missed her.
Since then, she thinks I've been cheating on her. She said if I hadn't had sex in nine weeks, I should have been about to burst after two minutes, not twenty.
Why didn't I c*m right away?!
2007-11-15 12:29:48 · 17 answers · asked by Ras C 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Tell her that you only cheated with Madam Palm and her Five Lovely Daughters
2007-11-15 12:42:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It always takes my man a long time when we haven't for a while. If it didn't take him a long time then I know he would have cheated on me. When I had my 1st child it was that way when we finally did have sex. Now sometimes we might be out of town for a couple of weeks or maybe I am sick and just not up to it for a week or so. It always takes him longer. Generally the 1st three times we do it takes longer then it's back to normal 3-5 min.
2007-11-15 21:54:33 · answer #2 · answered by Bilinda G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. tell her the fact that you 'took care of urself' when she was away. COMMUNICATION.
2. Tell her that b/c u missed her a lot U MAKE LOVE TO HER NOT JUST SEX. It used to be just sex every two or three days... after 9 weeks it is morethan that ... U MAKE LOVE... Making love take more time than having sex! .. We, humans, make love when we really are with our loved ones (could be after we missed them for a while ... days, weeks, ...) and we make sex (like animals) when it is just a routing/accidental to do it ...
OPEN COMMUNICATION IS THE COMMON DENOMINATOR FOR RELATIONSHIP! Talk to ur wife ... tell her everything, all what u feel (like telling her that what happened is strange to u too) ...
Good Luck
2007-11-15 21:00:55 · answer #3 · answered by CURIOUS! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My feeling is if that's how little she thinks of you, then she should just go f*ck herSELF.
If you go without for a week, then you might be bursting at the seams. But after nine weeks, your thing has kinda got out of the habit.
Women are quite annoying, don't you find?
2007-11-15 20:54:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say that you have never been away this long in six years. Then how does she know that you should have ejaculated in two minutes when you have been away for long (this hasn't happened before)??
Unless... she is seeing someone rarely, and he always burst out quickly every time they get together after a long time!!!
2007-11-15 20:44:40 · answer #5 · answered by Vatsa K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha the mere fact that you are asking--means you are guilty LOL
It is an asset for us guys to hold our ejaculation longer whuich means we satisfy our women better. It took me years to learn the craft. I used to burst my cannons after a few pumps and the doctor said premature bombardments can be dealt with.
So now I shoot longer and my women enjoy sex better why would they complain?
Your wife has what they call intuition so stick to the truth and say you use your mother fingers for a long time-which I guess is nota very good reason-or just say you were taking good care of her best friend LOL
2007-11-15 20:46:41 · answer #6 · answered by wolfass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem isn't why didn't you come right away, its why doesn't she trust you.
Why not just explain that you masturbated a few times and thats why you didn't finish right away.
Did she orgasm in the first couple of minutes? If not, does that mean she cheated on you? Sounds like you need to get yourself a decent wife....one that trusts you.
2007-11-15 21:14:38 · answer #7 · answered by heatedwirez 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you were making love to her not just sex, sounds like a fun wife you must have lots of nice conversations, tell her to shut up next time
2007-11-15 20:42:05 · answer #8 · answered by chocolateman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time think about Halle Berry in the cat suit.
2007-11-15 20:45:43 · answer #9 · answered by Bob H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a lieing detector and it will prove to her that you didn't cheat with her. Take her out to places and make her feel loved again.
2007-11-15 20:44:19 · answer #10 · answered by Conor 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋