PLEASE READ CAREFULLY: Someone from my past has came back into my life recently (last I knew he was married). He says that he's getting a divorce and that he will show me the papers. He says he wants to be w/ me but I am not going to jump into a relationship unless I know for a fact he has filed or is divorced. Here the thing he lives in New Mexico and I live in California. We talk through messenger and the phone. Also my Uncle called him and he told my Uncle he was indeed getting a divorce. How can I look up weather or not he has filed for divore w/out costing me?
2007-11-15 12:18:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to know the county he is in and call the clerk of the courts office. Dance your way through the questions and find out.
2007-11-15 12:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by Rein 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 10:04:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will have to go to the state he lives in and the county go to the county court house and ask to look up public records of divorce / or pay them to research it --- each state has there own records and it does cost unless u go to the county of divorce and look it up ur self
2007-11-15 12:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by Pearl P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't know anything UNTIL it is final. until then it's circulating in the system, between lawyers, paralegals, judge, etc.
but once you believe it is final, and he hasn't "shown" you anything, just go to that county's website and get the information you seek. if it does cost anything, it wouldn't be a whole lot, no more $10. and if that's all it takes for peace of mind, i'd do it.
2007-11-15 12:30:38 · answer #4 · answered by celticbuddha 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would need to possibly call the county where he is married legally to his wife. Marriage records are public records, but I dont know of any place online where you can access them for free.
2007-11-15 12:21:50 · answer #5 · answered by Van is due 5/8/08! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is try the county courthouse website in his area .i know you can check them for free out of Dallas, Tx so maybe other cities will have the info.
good luck~
2007-11-15 12:23:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't find out for sure unless he shows you the papers . He lives in another State !
2007-11-15 12:23:16 · answer #7 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a divorce that is finalized should be in the county courthouse,
public record, i,m pretty sure that i am right.
2007-11-15 12:22:56 · answer #8 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your local courthouse. Katrina, how are the Waves? Are they "Walking on Sunshine?---lol"
2007-11-15 12:21:01 · answer #9 · answered by "Johns" 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋