i have a freidn and she cuts her arm/wrist a lot. She says it makes her feel better and she says that she let's it bleed out while she sleeps and im so afraid she might accidently die or something!! what can i do????
2007-11-15 11:39:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she says that i am one of the only 2 ppl she trusts and if i tell she would loose her trust and im afraid that might push her over the egdge and she might do something... she talks about suicide all the time but says she won't do it... but still.
2007-11-15 11:50:17 · update #1
well tell her not to because it is bad that she will regret it later
2007-11-15 11:43:58 · answer #1 · answered by shorty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. Personally when I broke up with my First date, I cut myself for a bit. Is she depressed? Tell her how you feel about her cutting herself. Its a bad habbit. Pain is a good thing, but not in that way. If she slits her wrists while sleeping, there might be a possibility of deatho.0
2007-11-15 19:47:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend how concerned you are.. and if she won't listen to you, talk to someone else who wants to.
I am not sure how old you are but if you are a youngster, perhaps talk to a school counseller, or an adult. If you are older, maybe one of your mutual friends can also try to talk to her.
Cutting is not good, and she needs to talk to someone about it. Nothing gets better by bleeding it out while you sleep.
You are a good friend for being concerned about her, I am sure she will realise that.
2007-11-15 19:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by mumma.stench 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not good. She is having some problems that she needs to talk to someone for. Tell your friend that you are really worried about her and are scared that you may lose your friend, even if she does reassure you that she will be ok. Ask her to talk to someone about this. If she won't, then you may have to risk your friendship with her and tell someone yourself. The important thing is getting help for her.
2007-11-15 19:46:09 · answer #4 · answered by randmthots 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you cannot stop her on your own. When she does that, she needs to be put in a clinic to solve that threaten to her life, and needs psychiatric treatment. If you see her doing it, call an ambulance and give her first aid to stop the bleeding.
2007-11-15 19:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by mbestevez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This site has a lot of useful links:
http://www.christiananswers.net/q-eden/cutting.html
Also, consider giving her this hotline number...
Self Harm Hotline
1-800-DONTCUT
Help for "cutters"
2007-11-17 14:47:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seriously need to tell her parents, She may get upset with you for telling them, in the longrun your doing her a favor.
2007-11-15 19:49:31 · answer #7 · answered by TINKA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
convince her to go and see and specialist really go together or something.. if she doesn't want to well I guess you should tell somebody you won't like to have her death in your conscience even if she gets mad for telling she would thank you after
2007-11-15 19:47:13 · answer #8 · answered by kriskt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋