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The last of the true warriors?
I am 19 and I am a warrior for life. Many people try to act tough and say all that blah blah blah, but then they dont live it. I live it. I dont have all those emotions that make people weak. I have no love for anyone other then myself. I can garuntee you I will never fall in love and fall in line like every one else. I am a fighter not a lover. What I want to know is why everyone wants to pose like they are tough and have no emotions and all, but they really do and are just trying to live a life style that is not there own??

2007-11-15 11:23:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

how I see it is that the people who think they r tough and pick fights and talk about how tough they are just trying to convince themselves along with everyone else that they are tough. I think it is stupid I dont fight unless it is in the ring unless some one threatens me, but no one would be dumb enough to do that

2007-11-15 11:24:52 · update #1

alright so just answer the question or don't. Dont make this whole thing about me cuz its not I know who I am and dont give a damn about ur opinions on me, it was mearly an example of a person whos real in a world full of fakes. I just want to know why people are so fake???????????

2007-11-15 11:28:37 · update #2

11 answers

So, what you're really saying is you're a slave with no prospects of being set free as far as you can see. For, it is Love that sets us free. The true warrior, unlike what you say, is a warrior for Love, and Light, and Sound. I'll take up my sheild of Love, and Sword of Light, and Sound, and set forth for Spiritual Freedom and Home. Enjoy your chains until you see the Light.

2007-11-15 11:52:29 · answer #1 · answered by shine_radiantstar 4 · 0 0

Most warriors never have to prove they can fight. Also the most savage, cunning, and merciless soldiers fight to protect the ones they love.......... so if you have no love you will make mistakes because you have nothing and nobody to loose in the even you fall. If ever you question what I've said mighty warrior try to harm a child in front of a mother let alone a father, chances are you will not fair so well.

2007-11-15 13:02:52 · answer #2 · answered by Dr Phil 5 · 0 0

So, how's all this "warrior" stuff determining for you? you satisfied? Being a "warrior", with the aid of definition, capacity you're at conflict with somebody or some thing. What are you struggling with? Sounds extra such as you attempt to keep away from the soreness linked with love with the aid of pretending it is not who you're. it is not being a warrior. it is being a coward. bypass be stoic and self righteous someplace else. come again once you're waiting to do conflict on the sector of love. .

2016-10-16 21:39:00 · answer #3 · answered by launer 4 · 0 0

I see where you are coming from. Believe me. But I think true strength and true toughness is being a lover AND a fighter. I am both. Dude, it takes courage to show weakness. Anybody can be a hard a.s.s. all the time. I felt the same way you do. Until I had kids. You can't defend against the emotions a child brings up in you. I know that sounds gay but it's true.

You're mixing up falling in love with some idea of conformity. What does one have to do with the other? I assume you aren't a virgin. So you already have at least one weakness. If you want to know the truth, most people who refuse to feel emotions are just scared. You feel safer in being "tough" and people only worry about safety if they are afraid. It took me a long time to realize that: I was keeping people away from me and keeping any emotions I might have been able to feel away from me because I was scared.

I'm not going to sit here and say people aren't fake. They absolutely are. They care about stupid things and most of them are plastic and superficial. But the ones who fake being hard are just scared. Just like you. They've just turned it into anger. Just like you have. Just like I did. Trust me on this one. I was there for years. Been to jail for fighting (among many other things), was expelled from 3 different schools for it. Been locked in the nuthouse. Been arrested many, many times. I truly DID NOT care. About anything. But I was never as cocky as you seem to be trying to be. And that is another defense mechanism. It's all from insecurity and fear.

I know this is going to make you angry and that's OK. No one wants their secret fears exposed for everyone to see. Not when they've tried so hard to hide them. That's where you can learn from me. It's very, very hard for me even now to show emotion. It's so much easier for me to say that I don't give a sh!t. Even when I do (which isn't often but it does happen). People call me cold, heartless, uncaring, indifferent, a black widow, a succubus... And it's a by-product of so many years of being like this.

You mistakenly think that all fights are physical. There is a bigger war to be fought. Don't you realize that? A TRUE soldier can do whatever is called for in battle. He learns that going through life fighting everything gets him nowhere. He learns that becoming what people want or need works much better. He learns that the only weakness is refusing to see things for what they are and refusing to see himself clearly. He learns that fighting The Fight isn't always about actual battle; much of it is waiting in the trenches and learning. He learns that in order to win, he needs allies. Until he learns these things, he accepts that he will always be defeated.
EDIT: And "Dr. Phil" below me brings up a great point. If you care for nothing, what are you fighting FOR? Anything?

2007-11-15 11:54:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It sounds like you have some extreme emotions. They are just not pleasant ones. Histories most noble and notable warriors fought for love. Love of their countries, families, and friends. Only the strongest people can take those emotions you seem to despise and live a real life with them.

2007-11-15 11:31:01 · answer #5 · answered by Carrie E 2 · 0 0

Hey-Hey

Are you sure you don't have a huge chip on your shoulder? I'm not trying to call you out, but there seems to be alot of anger within you. Your very young to have such a bleak outlook for yourself.
Put all that inside the ring, don't let it get into your everyday life young man.
You have a loooooonnnng life waiting out there for u. Don't wear not having ablility to care or love as a badge of honor or courage..............

2007-11-15 11:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by michael w 3 · 0 0

i think you are the fake one, and i really feel sorry for you, cuz you were not hugged enough as a child. all tough and ugly...do you think that makes it ok? when you talk and act like that? you are what we in the real world (you know the world where we ALL have feelings and stuff?)
you are an @sshole thru & thru!!!

YOU ARE 19 FOR CRIPS SAKE YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT LIFE IS!!!!!!!!
GROW THE F*** UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-15 11:39:44 · answer #7 · answered by loriloriloriloriv 5 · 0 0

Sucks to be you. Guess those people around you are very immature. I hate those guys too. Believe me, they are tuff on the surface and weak inside.

2007-11-15 11:30:40 · answer #8 · answered by landzai 4 · 0 0

You are proof cupcake that the easiest person for any of us to fool is ourselves.

Good luck. Let me know how this works out for you.

2007-11-15 11:27:12 · answer #9 · answered by box of rain 7 · 2 0

with your attitude you certainly do have something to look forward to.

prison.

2007-11-15 11:31:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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