My whole life has been a giant (27 year) streak of bad luck it seems. It would take forever to type all of the ridiculous crap that has happened to me but basically I've been robbed, beaten, abused, lied to, cheated on, stabbed in the back, etc, non-stop. I'm not saying that stuff doesn't happen to other ppl, what I'm trying to say is that it's ALL that happens to me. There's no good to balance it out. I could write a novel just on the two serious live-in relationships I've been in alone. Both guys turned out to be pathalogical liars (I didn't find out who they truly were till AFTER I left them, and I lived w/ one for SEVEN YEARS). They both had serious mental issues (which of course they hid VERY well in the beginning). Both bf's were abusive, both stole tons of my belongings when I finally did leave them. Aside from that, 99.9% of the ppl in my life that I thought were friends ended up being two faced, back stabbing, liars just using me for one thing or another.
2007-11-15 11:15:57 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Both guys cheated on me, which I truly didn't find out about until after each relationship ended. One would not allow me back in the house to get ALL of my belongings (everything I acquired in 26 years) and then finally threw some of them outside of the house. I've had to basically start all over and buy a lot of new stuff. One abused me so bad that he stole my car keys so that I couldn't escape. My father was an alcoholic and abusive throughout my entire childhood. My mother very obviously favored my sister and she was spoiled rotten where as I had to work since I was 12 to buy my stuff. I've met a lot of guys that ended up being players and liars and/or just COMPLETELY NUTS. I also have a crazy ex landlord suing me after SHE locked me out of my house and broke all sorts of laws (now there's no doubt I'll win in court but just the ridiculousness of having to get a lawyer and deal with this for months, which also put off my plan of getting into the fbi)...
2007-11-15 11:16:19 · update #1
I've had guys that stand me up in the middle of nowhere in the middle of the night. I've met so many truly crazy ppl. And I'm not just talking about the guys I've dated, I'm talking just non-stop. The person I thought was my best friend just stopped talking to me suddenly when I was going thru the worst stage in my entire life. He didn't even call to see if I was ok (when he knew what I was going thru). And we were friends for like 6 yrs. I haven't heard from him in over a year, with no explaination. On top of this crap (and to prove it's not just the ppl I'm finding), I've had my car broken into and house broken into and been robbed numerous times (in different states and good neighborhoods). I've gotten to the point where I avoid ppl like the plague. I don't leave the house except for work, I don't talk to ppl except for co-workers when I have to. yesterday I went for a walk w/ my dog and we got attacked by a pitbull. I mean it will NOT STOP!
2007-11-15 11:16:39 · update #2
oh, and also, forgot to mention, my ex (the 7 yr one), his new gf has been stalking me for over 10 months. I've never even spoken to this girl (except the 2nd time she threatened me, and said "you need help and I hope you get it". She managed to figure out where I live, my phone number, my relatives phone numbers, the following bf's phone number, my work number (when NOBODY knew where I worked) and called/texted threats to me everywhere. Also, the police have never helped me w/ anything. not w/ this stalker, not when my landlord locked me out (btw, rent was paid up and everything, i was just trying to move out and my ex was staying and the lease was expired), not when my car got broken into, not when i was abused by my dad, not when my ex wouldn't let me get my stuff out of his house, etc...
2007-11-15 11:16:56 · update #3
And I'm not a bad person. I've always gone out of my way to help ppl and I'm friendly to everyone. Even these ppl that have done these things to me admit that i'm "the nicest person" they've met. I love animals and have rescued them from the streets. I'm extremely honest and open about everything. I've spent so many years trying to figure out what I'm doing wrong and tried everything I can think of to stop this trend. I've even asked and begged these ppl to tell me why they do this to me, so I can stop it. They say they don't know why and that I don't deserve it (but that apparently doesn't stop them from doing it). I have honestly thought that maybe I was someone HORRIBLE in a past life or something, like hitler maybe, and I'm being punished now. I have wondered if there is some kind of evil spell over me. I'm willing to explore every avenue at this point. I can't deal with this anymore.
2007-11-15 11:17:13 · update #4
...and i thought i was alone...we should link-up, because we
know what to expect...it might even work out...bad karma!
2007-11-19 02:51:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't believe you have "bad Karma." Perhaps it is simply the people you choose in your life. Maybe you are choosing to allow these people to do these things because you are sabotaging yourself and maybe not.
You may be going through these experiences to help you learn and grow as a person. There will come a time in your life when you can use these experiences to help another. After all, you will be more understanding because of these experiences because you have lived them.
It really depends on how you choose to look at each experience. You can either choose to do something good with it, or choose to let it ruin you. It really is up to you.
2007-11-19 17:53:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes your right somebody in your family has done something wrong in the past that's why its affecting you right now..so i suggest find a mystic healer or find a lucky charm that will get off the bad spirit your having .or maybe try to do reverse try making good to other person. or help other person who needs help .maybe it will reversed the cursed. good Karma by helping other people. it will bounce back at you and u will received also good luck for helping others in need thanks...
2007-11-15 19:29:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody has that much bad luck. (though I have to admit that I didn't read all of your post) Yes, we sometimes have bad luck but the important concept in 'karma' is that we create our own 'luck' (if we can indeed call it that)
Once somebody said to Jack Nicklaus, 'how can you be so lucky?' and he is reputed to have replied with 'y'know the more I practice, the luckier I get...' (words of wisdom)
2007-11-15 19:18:58 · answer #4 · answered by megalomaniac 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should move...get a fresh start. also i think if you've laughed at least once in your lifetime, then life isn't the most horrible thing in the world. it might be pretty darn close, but it's definitely not the most horrible thing. that's what i think and my life isn't that great either.
2007-11-15 19:25:02 · answer #5 · answered by np 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's your destiny. you can only have bad karma if you do bad also to others. karma is like a boomerang, know it? if you trow it, it will come back to you...
in addition to that, what is the use of your freedom. you are the one making your life..
2007-11-15 19:30:33 · answer #6 · answered by kcin o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad stuff happens extra to some people even if they r good. i dont know what to say to help. i would be frustrated.
2007-11-15 20:08:39 · answer #7 · answered by Delightful 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋