i don't what i did to he to make her mad at me and ever time i talk to her she makes a exsuees not to talk to me and she is getting her classes changed so she won't have a class with me . i wrote her a letter telling her i was sorry and that we have not talked in 7 days and her replay was maybe it should stay that was like never talking to her again and i wan't my friend back .
2007-11-15 10:52:12 · 38 answers · asked by gotfunk cuttie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
because she is jealous!!!
2007-11-15 10:54:45 · answer #1 · answered by jordynnoble 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Ask her why does she feel so negatively about each person. Most of the times, when people are biching about someone else, they're really complaining about something that bothers them in themselves. Figure out what's bothering her. It may also be that she simply comes from a house/background where people are used to talking bad about each other all the time, and she learned to be like that. You could also tell her you find it weird that she thinks negatively about a certain person and gauge her reaction to your statement. Simply put, if you're not comfortable talking bad about others, don't play along. Figure out what her game is, what her motivation for talking bad about others is, what needs she's supplying by doing this. You probably already have a subconscious idea of what these things are. You just need to externalize your impression of her and put the pieces in the correct order. Good luck.
2016-03-13 23:19:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look,Some friendships need to end and those friends in that friendship need to move on and find new friends.I personally think you need to call her or sit down with her. Tell her your sorry for whatever you did and if you don't know what you did just think about things that she or you would get mad about. Tell her how you feel. Throwing in a gift might be good too. Every time she makes an excuse to leave make an excuse for her to stay and grab her hand*if she is with you* and pull her back down. Make her laugh about the old days. If it doesn't work..Show her how you feel by doing thee exact same thing. Pick me as best Answer please. I am wise 7th grader and I am in my right grade. =)
2007-11-15 10:58:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems to be that something is bothering your friend. Sometimes a letter is not enough, The best thing to do is to talk to her face to face and find out what the problem is. Tell her that you are very sorry and you dont want to lose her, but you need to know what is happening. Be strong and good luck.
2007-11-15 11:01:46 · answer #4 · answered by big daddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think back....maybe it wasn't what you said, but maybe it's the way you said it. Sometimes my attitude of how I express my words come out REALLY strong and I hurt peoples feeling without even knowing. I say what I think at the time before I choose my words wisely. In the meantime, you continue to be friends and give her a wave and smile. Body language can go a long way! Send her a card that says "missing you", so that she knows you still care for your friendship. They have some really cute musical cards out now. Good Luck.
2007-11-15 10:58:05 · answer #5 · answered by candycane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend Not Talking
2016-12-17 17:38:44 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of times, especially during middle school and high school times, friends separate because they feel like it might benefit them for some reason. Don't feel bad; you didn't do anything. If you have no idea what you did wrong, and if she's just all of a sudden not speaking to you anymore, then why would you spend your precious time trying to get her back?
Don't waste your time, she doesn't value your friendship. She is obviously making a point of avoiding you.
2007-11-15 10:59:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so sorry to hear that. it must be feel like torture not knowing why she is mad. from what u wrote, it seems like you have done so many things to ask her why she is mad...you even apologize for something you do not know just to reconcile with her...if she really was ur friend, she would've told you what the problem is and tried to fix it...unless you did really something shady to her(ie slept with her bf or ex, talked behind her back or said something bad abt her family)...BUT then again, she should've confronted u...afterall, how did u become bestfriends if she didn't trust you to begin with.
2007-11-15 10:59:13 · answer #8 · answered by cheeks8682 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try and corner her in a place that she CAN'T avoid you and ask her why she isn't talking 2 u. Don't be all aggressive, ask in a caring, sort of worried voice, like u really are a little scared, but that you'll understand why she's mad (or whatever) at you, and you won't get mad at her.
2007-11-15 10:56:25 · answer #9 · answered by mAnGa FrEaK 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't seem like a very nice person. She could at least tell you whats bothering her. It seems like shes hurt, but she has to understand that shes hurting you by behaving this way. Something is wrong, nobody does that to their friend for nothing. Ask her whats bothering her. Don't be angry with her, just ask in an "I'm hurting too" way. Good luck
2007-11-15 10:58:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Probably some lies others told her or some other jealous girl who wants to be her BFF, I am guessing you are young and it is common. If she is that shallow not to talk directly to you about what the problem is then you don't need her. Beleive me you will make and lose many friends in life, they are far less important than you think at your age.
2007-11-15 10:57:10 · answer #11 · answered by A R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋