husband?
I only cheated once and that was after I found out he cheated on me.
2007-11-15 10:51:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
two wrong don't make a right if you think the two of you'll be able to move on after you tell him and start flesh I'll say go for it.
but if you don't have any desire to cheated again on your mate rather the sex will be great or boring
I say keep that secret to your grave because there's no need to cause drama in your relationship if not necessary
I'm not in your shoes the decision is yours do what best for you
good luck
2007-11-15 11:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by jolie minouche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, well, well, a jilted lover cheating because he did! How MATURE is that! If he cheated on you, leave the 'Bastard'. How many times to some people need to be told, if he's done it once he'll do it again!
Of course the sex was horrible it was with someone you DIDN'T want to have sex with. Now you are just a lowlife like your husband is.
How did YOU know he cheated on you? I hope you weren't told by some so-called friend who probably wants to bang your man? I hope hope you're 100% sure he did actually cheat on you.
Imagine if you were wrong? How would you feel then?
2007-11-15 19:13:40 · answer #2 · answered by Badass 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If cheating was boring to you why make more problems unless you just like to fight cause you two will fight over this. The next time you might just bring home little creepy crawlies and do you know for sure that he doesn't already have anything? Years down the road both of you could be laying in bed with the same aids and saying what were we thinking?
2007-11-15 19:06:56 · answer #3 · answered by crlcan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tit for tat. An eye for an eye. So where does this lead you? He cheated on you so you go and cheat on him? Tag, your it! Let's grow up and not down. How old are you guys? Are you still playing high school or do you want to really be mature married responsible adults here?
2007-11-15 18:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by Hello Kitty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That you did not like it or that you cheated? I would not tell him it was boring. But the letting him know that two can play that game may keep him straight.
2007-11-15 18:57:34 · answer #5 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you were going to do that - you should have at least made sure the sex wasn't boring / horrible !!!
I would suggest doing something with your "fling" that you wouldn't normally do with your husband ! Use your imagination !!
Geesh - you just wasted a good sin - didn't ya ?
2007-11-15 18:57:54 · answer #6 · answered by aa889d 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will tell him because you can't stop yourself from hurting him as much as he hurt you. It doesn't matter because you two will not be married five years from now. It shouldn't last five years but you will both work at making each other as miserable as you can until one or the other just sickens of it. You could save a lot of pain and misery just ending it now. Let's hope there are no children involved. Save them the pain of your foolishness.
2007-11-15 19:52:56 · answer #7 · answered by jonds 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a risk if he ever found out that you knew, or what you did. Seek professional counseling for your marriage, this kind of behavior can be very damaging to the both of you.
2007-11-15 18:56:51 · answer #8 · answered by acedelux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It didn't make it right for you to cheat too. I suggest you confess and you both seek counseling if you want your marriage to work.
2007-11-15 18:58:34 · answer #9 · answered by Princess Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell him that you stooped to a petty revenge instead of talking with him about your marital problems. You don't have to tell him you didn't enjoy it - that's not really his business.
Perhaps it's time you two started being honest with each other about what you really want, instead of seeking gratification elsewhere.
2007-11-15 18:56:40 · answer #10 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋