My fiance and I separated for about four months during which time he dated another woman. Now she is pregnant and says it is his. She wants him to go to all of her doctors appointments and be present for the birth. I think that any obligation he has will occur when it is conclusively established that the kid is his through a DNA test, and until then I do not want him to see or talk to her. He does not want to participate yet either but she is guilting him with constant text messages. What should I do?
2007-11-15 08:06:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get his number changed, and hope to god this child is not his.
2007-11-15 08:18:31 · answer #1 · answered by diablo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU don't do anything. It's his choice. Either he's a man with character, or not. But you are not involved here; this is between him and her. If he chooses to stay close with her, then again that's his CHOICE. He doesn't sound very mature if he let's her guilt him onto something. Is he a man or a little boy? And you have to admit, he didn't waste much time weeping over you when you two were separated! He got right into bed with another woman. No waiting for him!
You will just have to wait and see how he handles the situation.
2007-11-15 16:22:34 · answer #2 · answered by D 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You may not know it but she can have a DNA test done now, They stick a small needel in and take some fuids from the baby...you should get that done, it would be worth paying for rather then going through nine months of hell with this woman. tell her you guys will pay and she needs to get it done. if not, it was her choice...don't mess around with crazies like her, but support you fiance 100%.
2007-11-15 16:19:48 · answer #3 · answered by erikagoodpasture 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really should be emotionally supportive until it's proven the child is not his. He should be involved. I'm sorry he's put you in this position.
2007-11-15 16:14:58 · answer #4 · answered by JB 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing for you to do but to support whatever decision he makes or leave.
2007-11-15 16:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by DJ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if he isn't going to be there for his baby with her , what makes you think he will be there for you.
get used to it if you marry him its going to last for at lest 18 more years
2007-11-15 21:00:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him.
2007-11-15 16:10:41 · answer #7 · answered by Emanon 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋