i'm 19 and just found out that im 2 mon. pregant and i don't know how to tell my boyfriend or parents, i think he will be very happy it's just that he wants to get a better job. i don't know how to tell my parents because my younger sister is pregant and they may think thats the only reasin i got pregant or that my boyfriend is going to do the same thing my sister boyfriend did. (he acts like he don't know her and denies her and her unborn child) but my boyfriend isn't like that .
2007-11-15 07:48:36 · 10 answers · asked by jayy20072008 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Tell your boyfriend first and come up with a plan together on how you are going to deal with this. Then tell your parents together. If your boyfriend really is supportive, this will show your parents that he is in it with you. And try not to stress out about how to tell them. Just do it. Good luck.
2007-11-15 07:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by kat 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you know your boyfriend is not going to do the same thing as your younger sister's boyfriend then tell your boyfriend about your pregnancy. This is when you'll find out if your guy is an asshole or a keeper. Only one way to find out. Oh yeah, and if you're parents already know that your younger sister is going to have a baby then you should tell them as well. I'm sure they wouldn't be that surprised and understand you.
2007-11-15 07:57:26 · answer #2 · answered by Angelica L 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well first you have to tell your bf. Your parents can wait a few more days or weeks. You need to sit him down and just tell him. There's no easy way, but the sooner the better. And as far as your family is concerned, things happen. As long as YOU know in you heart you weren't trying to "copy" your sister then it doesn't really matter what they think about when it comes to that subject.
2007-11-15 07:54:06 · answer #3 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you have to be honest and up front about the pregnancy. tell them that while you were not trying to get pregnant right now, you are and you are looking forward to having the baby. tell your boyfriend BEFORE your parents. he is the dad and has a right to know and decide how he will respond to the rest of the family too. tell your parents that while you feel sorry for your sis, your pregnancy is different because you have a bf that supports you and really loves you and will be there for you and the baby.have your bf with you when you tell them to help ease their fears.good luck and congradulations
2007-11-15 07:57:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Start with your boyfriend. Make plans get things set up and decide what you're doing. Then tell you parents once you have a plan to share with the, so they can atleast know you're making them and thinking ahead a little.
2007-11-15 07:53:29 · answer #5 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I got pregnant around the same age as you a long time ago. I told my mother after I told my bf, and she wasn't happy about it. Since I was away at college, she came down and sat with me, him and his family and we told them together.
Tell your bf first, then sit down calmly and let your family in on it. They might be upset, but you can't control that; you can only control yourselves. If you're sure that he will stick around with you, then you are a lucky woman to have found a man and not a boy.
2007-11-15 08:22:50 · answer #6 · answered by kellygirlaj 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell your b/f first and have him go with you to tell your parents.
BTW: Make sure your sister sues for child support. Just because he denies he is the father doesn't mean he is off the hook!
2007-11-15 07:59:40 · answer #7 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Buy a baby's t-shirt that says "i love my daddy" for your boyfriend. Wrap it up and give it to him. He will get the hint. Do the same with your parents. Buy a baby's t-shirt that says "i love my grandparents." If you have to do it, at least do it in a cute way.
2007-11-15 07:54:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just tell them and get it over with!! The longer you wait the harder it will be on everyone involved!!
2007-11-15 07:53:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
say, HI DADDY! HI GRANDMA! HI GRANDPA!
I told my brother by calling him Uncle Brother for a whole day, before he realized it.
2007-11-15 07:53:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋