How to make an ex suffer?

Question

Not my ex but my hubbys'..she is a vindictive, nasty, mean, evil hag who is a horrible waste of flesh. Not only has she told her children (whom I adore), that she wishes she never had them, sent 1 to a mental health place (she drove her daughter to try suicide), has berated,belittled and over manipulated their lives. She has emotionally,spiritually, and emotionally battered these kids and my ex. She has just admitted that she cares not for the kids only the $$ she can get out of my man, she has also admitted to coming after my man ( financailly or physically) once the kids are 18. I have been and known my husband for 2 years, he is the sweetest most caring loving person I know, who does sometimes give his shirt off his back to someone who needed it. She had beaten my man so hard once that he had brain swelling. She has manipulated many people with her lies about him and lies just to make herself look better, to get what she wants from people. UGH!!! HELP

Am thinner, younger and a lot nicer than her.. she has not moved on and prob. can't. Kill them with kidness huh? why doesn't it work?

Thanks you guys for letting me vent!!
He isn't that kind of person to raise his hand to a woman. ( I would tho, lol).. needed all your support and words.. will let karma run its course..Thanks again all!!

Answer 1

She sounds miserable already.
Forget making her suffer and concentrate on making your life together more enjoyable. Your happy life together is killing her.
Get a lawyer to sort out your financial support issues, as well as any other issues standing in the way of your family's happiness.

Answer 2

Look at it this way -- she's his EX for a reason. She's over the top vindictive because of her history with him. People are often vindictive when it comes to an ugly divorce and emotionally abusive marriage. No matter WHAT you or he do, it won't stop her. The best you can do is ignore her behavior... him as well. If she ever gets to the point where she breaks in and trashes the place, or trashes your car or any other real property, just call the police. Stay calm and just...
call the police.

Oh, and by the way -- she already IS suffering. She just SEEMS crazy because of her now-revenge type behavior. Basically, she'll say or do anything she can think of that will hurt him emotionally.

Answer 3

Wow, I didn't know my husband's ex had a clone. The similarities are scary!! The truth is there are lots of people like her out there. Don't obsess about making her suffer - that's a waste of your time and energy. Ever heard of Karma? She will get hers eventually, just not soon enough to suit you. Go on with your life and be the best wife and mom you can to those kids.

Answer 4

Well…



I’m not trying to give anyone ideas or anything, BUT, I still think Stink Bags are fabulous. One of those in a car sitting in the sun all day would be Un-bearable. (Only a dollar @ the Dollar General!)



Pizzas delivered every 10 minutes for 2 hours…always a nice touch.



A half ton of MIXED concrete delivered to the house – always good for a laugh, cuz it HAS to be paid for. It’s pre-mixed!! J



Ordering flowers to her work from her boss and putting this on the “You mean the world to me, last night was great” card…priceless!



Calling “her” anonymously from a Dr.’s office to let her know that State Law requires an HIV positive person divulge the names of their “partners” for the last year+, in order to contact them to learn how & where to get tested for their safety…



Put an ad in the FREE paper in her town for a Garage Sale @ her address. The ads are FREE and make sure to include phone # , address, the fact that everything MUST go AND MOST OF ALL ------that the sale is on Saturday AND Sunday, starting @ 6:30am.



Need more?

Answer 5

If this woman is as you described, your husband's children are in an abusive environment and your husband should try to gain sole custody of the children. Your husband can try to convince the court his ex-wife is an unfit mother. Psychiatrists can evaluate the children. Perhaps your husband filed a police report when his ex abused him.

I wouldn't concentrate on making this woman suffer. She already is miserable. Focus on helping the children. What's easier is you already adore them. Do it for them.

Answer 6

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How to make an ex suffer?
Not my ex but my hubbys'..she is a vindictive, nasty, mean, evil hag who is a horrible waste of flesh. Not only has she told her children (whom I adore), that she wishes she never had them, sent 1 to a mental health place (she drove her daughter to try suicide), has berated,belittled and over...

Answer 7

A sociopath is what you are dealing with. She will always be a problem for the two of you. She will hurt the childrens hearts and destroy their self esteem. Children suffer so much with someone like this so get them away immediately. Let these kids make childhood memories that are pleasant .

Answer 8

If you ever go over to her house, take some hershey's syrup and take her milk from the fridge and make the entire gallon Chocolate Milk, its funny because everyone loves chocomilk, but its a nuisance because now she doesnt have any regular milk, works everytime.
Just be Happy
Bad people will get what they deserve one day

Answer 9

Going on with your life and not letting someone like that ruin it is the best revenge. It is hard but you have to be above it. Don't seek to make someone suffer. Pray she gets help!

Answer 10

Do absolutely nothing if she is doing all of this trust me she is suffering already she just wont show it.Nobody I mean nobody can go through all of this and just be OK revenge is sweet but evil also. She is suffering with more then you know.