I have to sneak out to go out on a date with a guy... See, my parents are very strict, but tomorrow it's both mine and my best friend's brithday... I told my parents I'm gonna be celebrating it at my friend's house, but I'm actually going on a date... Do you think what I'm doing is really bad?
Please give honest opinions.. It's technically lying and sneaking behind their back... ??
2007-11-15 05:55:28 · 31 answers · asked by introspective rissa 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
what your doing it is called living life, dont worry about it. if you get caught just tell them "its not like im sneaking out to do drugs".....that will put them in there place
2007-11-15 05:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by Boom 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
As a parent, I think this is a bad idea.
First and foremost to lie, but take a look at the big picture.
What if something happens while on this date, say emergency (you are injured). Image the shock when you parents get the call that you were somewhere hey never dreamed.
NOT A GOOD IDEA? Why not spend time with this person at your friends house where you are safe and supervised?
2007-11-15 14:01:16 · answer #2 · answered by dapperdudet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm well, it is dishonest, but we've almost all been there. I would say that, one day, your parents will find out about one of your lies b/c this won't be the only time you will want to date your bf......one time I drove to my friends house to 'spend the night, but instead we went to the beach for spring break (for 1 day, and came back the next). Ahhh, fun at the time.....terribly awful when my dad found out after the car read far more miles than just down the road!!
Just be prepared for a good explaination if and when they do check up on you........like, will you be bringing home presents? Like when they ask how your party was and you have to tell yet another lie......it just gets bigger, so you'll have to weigh those options. good luck and happy b-day!!
2007-11-15 14:01:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's wrong for so many reasons,
as a parent,
i know that all things i tell my children 'no' to,
it's only because they have a parent who cares.
and on the karma aspect of it,
i think things like that also tempt the fates.
as hard as it may be at times, (and i do remember when i was a teenager) just feel fortunate that you have a good parent who cares.
why don't you actually go out and celebrate withy your best friend, since as you say it is her birthday too, and then maybe the guy you want to be with can meet you there. hang out with both of them and have fun.
2007-11-15 14:02:57 · answer #4 · answered by The French Connection 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is sad that you have to lie, but not neccessarily bad. If you are a good person who doesn't get in trouble and just wants to hang out with a guy you like, you should be able to. It is sad that your parents are so strict to the point that you have to lie about something as little as a one date. I don't think what you are doing is bad, but I think you should sit down and talk to your parents and let them know your feelings. Parents want their kids to be happy and I would hope if you let them know how you feel, they will lighten up and let you experience more of life.
hope this helps :)
2007-11-15 14:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by la8dolce8vita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents are also strict.and if they are anything alike they will probably call to check up on you and i would say it was a harsh lie and you will feel guilty and worried about it the whole time you are out but sometimes you need to get away awhile and chill with people other than your parents and people they know.So it doesn't make you a terrible person you just want to get out.
2007-11-15 14:05:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know... my parents were a little strict with me when I was younger. Sometimes... you know that your not a bad kid and that you just want to go out and have a little fun. As long as you know that your a good kid and that you're not going to go get wild and crazy on this date... what your parents dont know...wont kill them. Just remember to be safe and also remember that you're taking a risk... so if you get caught you got no one to blame but yourself. Hope it all goes well.
2007-11-15 14:08:03 · answer #7 · answered by nidia j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do things like that then maybe that's the cause of your parents being strict,you should tell them the truth and offer to introduce him to them before you go out.
2007-11-15 14:02:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are currently putting yourself in a position to get totally pwn3d by your folks. If they are strict, then they will probably call your friend's house, and will probably want to talk to her parents, and will probably find out that you are not there.
AND, you should probably be at your best friend's birthday anyway.
best friend>boyfriend.
2007-11-15 14:01:35 · answer #9 · answered by FriezaKicksAss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your going to burn burn BURN. Naw seriously though I dont know how old you are or how old this boy is, but I understand what you mean because I was in a relationship once when she would lie, she felt like she was being boxed in and that her parents didnt trust her which I didnt see why because she was a good girl
2007-11-15 14:00:26 · answer #10 · answered by prodigychild_21 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is and what will you do if your parents need to get a hold of you, call your friend's house and you're not there? Do it but be ready for possible consequences.
2007-11-15 14:00:19 · answer #11 · answered by Ruthinia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋