My boyfriend and I broke up on mutual terms. For a while after, we still hung out every day. Hes my best friend and I couldn't imagine him not being in my life. I found out he was wanting to hook up with some other girl that he had always bad mouthed before. She has a boyfriend, and shes also having sex with someone else from my exs friends band. From what I had heard in the beginning was that they already had sex, but now to find out they haven't and that the only reason he was hanging out with her was because our friend was talking to her best friend and he needed a wingman.I told him"Its one thing to see someone you deeply care about wanting to hook up with another chick, but its much worse if she's a nasty *** slut. I hope you get aids" I know the words were immature and not true. now he won't talk to me, and wont accept my aploogy or hear me out at all. Plus the slut wants to kick my ***, which she could. How do i avoid violance and get him to accept my aplogy for reacting so bad?
2007-11-15 02:07:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The girls in the class I'm in now... she'll probably want to try something after class. I WILL get my *** kicked if i don't think of something to say. HELP!
2007-11-15 02:14:46 · update #1
Being friends after a relationship doesn't really happen
2007-11-15 02:10:30 · answer #1 · answered by Pascal 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
About your best friend......you might just have to wait 'til things turn bad to get him back. Once things do get bad let him know you are there to talk if he ever needs it. As for this girl, avoid her at all cost until things cool off or you learn some DEFENSE moves. Stay a little after to do homework, or get a bunch of your friends and leave together.
Life and learn- next time cool off and think before you say something!
2007-11-15 02:50:08 · answer #2 · answered by muzacmaster44 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave things as they are for the time being and give him space. Also I can't believe that he told that girl what you said and now she wants to beat you down.
If I were you I'd stay well away from both, let things calm down and then send him a note or text him asking if the two of you can talk. Hopefully he will say yes and then you will have the chance to apologise. If not forget it and him. However until then lay low and stay away from that girl
2007-11-15 02:14:02 · answer #3 · answered by Baps . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry this happen but i think you should write him a letter and send it to him explaining why you were mad. and as far violence never say she could kick your *** you will be surprise at what you could do trust me i know i think you need to ignore her and try to get him to apologize but writing him a letter and let life take its course and remember nobody can't kick your *** if you let them every body has something in them it will come out. GOOD LUCK AND WRITE BACK
2007-11-15 02:15:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing's better than the direct approach. Ask him if you can speak with him briefly and give a quick sincere apology followed immediately by reassurance of a stable relationship. Talk to long and he will lose interest.
2007-11-15 02:11:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you've apologised and you can do no more. I think that you're going to have to let this one go, they are all a bit sore about it. (And it might even be that your words were not as off the mark as you thought, but there's little point in getting into that now.)
He'll talk to you when he's ready. Otherwise just let it go. Chalk this down as a learning experience.
2007-11-15 02:12:18 · answer #6 · answered by Orla C 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hie, you've positioned your self in an extremely confusing situation. You were incorrect to sleep with this pal. he's not a good pal coz he took great factor concerning the placement. the perfect element is to inform your hubby and if it ability reducing all ties with this pal so be it.
2016-10-24 07:01:52 · answer #7 · answered by leisure 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well saying you hope he gets AIDS is really messed up. My grandfather died of AIDS and it should NEVER be used as an insult. If you said that to me I wouldn't ever talk to you again.
Who knows, maybe after time he'll speak to you.
2007-11-15 02:12:04 · answer #8 · answered by Joey B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, but you should forget him and move on. Find a new boyfriend & he'll become your best friend. If you're still best friends with someone you used to sleep with you'll never find someone else worth having.
2007-11-15 02:11:13 · answer #9 · answered by yaafm 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Wow...well i say apologies to him and if he doesnt except it, well thats all you can do!
For the girl, make sure she knows that if she touches you, you will get her done for it.
2007-11-15 02:11:33 · answer #10 · answered by thatgurrlagain 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋