I found out that my wife e-mailed a picture of herself to some guy she met in an online game. It really pissed me off. She just kind of blew it off as no big deal and that I was overreacting. I was not snooping around, I was on the computer.. then I left.. did not log out... when I came back I opened up the mail, turns out it was her mail not mine. She loged in while I was gone and did not log off. It was just a picture, nothing nasty, no text. When I ask her why she would do that, she just said it's no big deal, dont worry about it, just wanted to sho them I'm a girl. Hmm.. them, I say... him and his room-mate she says... This has ate at me for days and she will not talk with me about it anymore. Should I just let it go .... ?
2007-11-15 01:56:40 · 13 answers · asked by Laz37 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The way the world is today, people cannot take chances on the internet. Your wife did a foolish thing and you were absolutely right to call it to her attention. It is, in fact, a big deal and she needs to stop being so careless. I'm sorry but I would not let it go, until I clearly told her that I do not appreciate her sending pictures to strangers. Playing games online is one thing. Getting personal is quite another. Furthermore, she is a married woman and what she did shows very little respect for you. She could like it, or she could not like it; but I would tell her this, nevertheless!
2007-11-15 02:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication! Communication! Laz37, if it really is bothering you then you should tell her, but in a calm manner. She probably wouldn't really discuss it with you because you probably blew up in her face. Just like women need to be re-enforced and reassured of a mans love and commitment, a man needs the same. CALMLY ask her about her sending the picture and what was her intentions. If she doesn't want to talk about it, leave it alone for that moment and bring it up at a later time, but let her know how this situation makes you feel, but do it calmly. God bless!
2007-11-15 10:15:13 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a marriage husband and wife must always be true to each other. It builds trust and I don't think your feeling it right now with good reason. However, don't attack her - attack the situation by asking her to go to family counseling with you FOR YOU (don't say 'because of what happened)
You don't say how long you've been married but no doubt there is a rough hill your trying to climb right now. Hang in there son! Life isn't always cherries but if you love you (and you need to and show it) marriage is worth the counseling. Counseling means the marriage means enough to you to invest in it. On that uphill climb, look to God who will help and keep you for this longhaul. Even when you feel life is selling you short , He will always be right there to carry you - just call on Him and give this marriage to Him to handle. Seek 1st Him- call on Him and give your cares to Him. Then you can be happy in knowing no matter what the situation you are loved and cared for and that will keep you going what may come. Regina
2007-11-15 11:04:23 · answer #3 · answered by regina f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you let it go, if there was nothing provocative on the email I don't see what the problem is!
I've sent pictures of my self to guys I've talked to online, some have been friends for over 6 years!! There was no hidden meaning or purpose... it's just a picture. that's it!
I think you just need to talk to her, tell her you think u over reacted, but u just want her to know that it did bother you. She'll be glad u did.
~ Nessa ~
2007-11-15 10:36:27 · answer #4 · answered by ♥(`*•.(`*•.¸ ή姧α¸.•*´) .•*´)♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She won't talk about it because she knows she is WRONG!!!! She is a married woman and should not be sending any man her photo but especially some stranger she met on the Internet. Shame on her!
2007-11-15 10:16:27 · answer #5 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats messed up. Why would she need to show them she is a girl?! And how does she know they arent a couple of stalker/rapists or something? Thats messed up. She is being careless and is disrespecting your feelings. Keep an eye on that. 8l
2007-11-15 10:16:34 · answer #6 · answered by undone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd probably get angry, but trust her. If she says its nothing trust her. But don't be fooled. I remember somebody saying that a man is a fool to think that his woman (in your case your wife) wouldn't cheat on him. Women can be sneaky. This doesn't mean that she is cheatng, MAYBE its a surprise for you. Who knows whats going on. But let it go, with a little time you will know. :)
2007-11-15 10:05:50 · answer #7 · answered by l o v e l y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think so. I wouldnt want my husband sending girls pic's of him. It's not right. U should try to tell her how would she feel if you did that. I tell my husband things like that but only when he thinks what he does is right and if Iwould do it, that would be totally wrong.
2007-11-15 10:04:30 · answer #8 · answered by Melissa H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wasnt nude it was just a picture let it go.my wife sends pictures of herself out but never nudes even when they ask she is loyal too
2007-11-15 10:01:34 · answer #9 · answered by djmixah7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife is being stupid because she know what she did was wrong and now is is trying to blame you. Don't worry about her is will growup soon.
2007-11-15 10:00:53 · answer #10 · answered by LivingMyLife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋