Here's the situation I'm in, I don't want to be marry anymore and it's really not about anyone else it's me. I really want to be by myself so I can heal from alot of male issues I've had in my life before him and including him. He have hurt me terribly too. My father died and I got marry too soon after that. Also I had been in a relationshhip with someone else for two years before that. I also like to mention that my father hurted me tremendously also. I don't want hurt my husband or myself but I don't want him the way a woman should want her husband. I want him to find happiness. What I really want to know is how can I get out of this marriage? I want to get annullment but he keep telling me we haven't been marry long enough to get one. We got marry 6/1/07, how long do I have to wait? My father died 3/07/07. Also this man has similar quality as my father do and that is begining to be a turn off because my father molested me as a child. It's like dealing with my dad. Sick! Please Help!
2007-11-15 00:36:50 · 5 answers · asked by Gail S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get a lawyer, you can get an annullment, he is not being truthful with you. I hope you get professional help because you seem to have had a lot to deal with in your life. Good luck, I will say a little prayer for you.
2007-11-15 01:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for everything that has happened! You need to see a shrink! You need to DEAL with all of the above things. I wouldn't call it quits just yet, unless he's been abusive. What attracted you to your husband to begin with. Think back when u first met him, your first kiss, date, movie....... There's a reason u chose him. I don't know where u are from, but it depends on where u live as far as the annullment goes?!?
2007-11-15 08:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by Tabatha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a prearranged marriage. If it is ..give back the goats, get out and go to a shelter for women and then get some serious counseling. Good luck.
2007-11-15 09:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by John 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suspect you are from a different culture and country then myself; different laws and customs may apply to you.
I'm sorry about your troubles, although I can say you shouldn't let anything to do with your father define your relationship with your husband.
2007-11-15 08:41:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a lot of issues to deal with. Find a womens shelter and they will help you through this.
2007-11-15 08:45:24 · answer #5 · answered by cooter726 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋