Hi.. I know a girl.. I love her very much... But She is a Lesbian.. Is it possible to change her to a normal female? It is very difficult for me to live in this world with out her.... Please someone help me...
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Mr. X INDIA
2007-11-12 20:34:36 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
People she is my close friend... As a friends we both are OK. Because of her character I love her very much. Her character suites me. If she is not a lesbian sure I would have married her. But still I love her. I am not deserving any sexual affair from her. Just she should be with me till the end. Without marriage a boy and girl both cannot live in one house here in India. Even I dont think she will accept that. If there is a way that forces her to change her sexual preference, please let me know. I dont want to loose her. I love her very much. I changed my ID as Mr. X India, b'coz if she comes to know that I posted this question, she may go very far from me.... Please people help me.
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Mr. X India
2007-11-12 21:30:33 · update #1
i dunno, i'm normal and a lesbian so i guess you'll just have to ask her if she willing to stop being so damn strange.
obviously i'm a bit ticked that to you "normal" means straight, because there are many different perceptions of normal in this world and to me it would be so wrong to try and be with a guy that i would consider it abnormal.
so here is my answer:
she can choose to suppress who she truly is and lead a life that is a lie to her true self to make you happy, while probably never being happy herself. or you could live up to the love you claim to have for her in the question and love her for who she is. no matter who she is attracted to. and if you love her so much you should be able to be a part of her life even if she's a lesbian, why does it have to be all or nothing? you're just making it harder on yourself.
2007-11-12 20:47:30 · answer #1 · answered by truetor 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I am not a specialist in this field, being a straight female, but my personal opinion is that most women go though a stage where they experiment with their sexual preferences & if this is the case then she is not turning straight, she is just returning to what is coming naturally to her.
On the other hand if she has been born Lesbian, it may be that she is now experimenting & that is only a period of trying something else.Then changes are that she will return to her old ways very soon.
2007-11-12 20:43:42 · answer #2 · answered by Ters B 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What exactly is a normal female? Just because she is a lesbian doesnt mean she is not normal. How rude! She will not change, she was born that way. You can be best friends with her and have the best relationship ever. Dont ever try to change who a person is. You are the way you are.
If you really love her then you love her for who she is, right?
2007-11-12 20:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by kalukakalaka 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
See, but if she's a lesbian I'm willing to bet you've already spent some time living in this world without her.
Stop sounding so desperate.... it's kinda pathetic... and... emo-ish...
And if she knew you were posting this question about 1. Her not being "normal" because she's a lesbian, and 2. Trying to change her from being herself, I don't think she'd want much to do with you anymore...
2007-11-12 20:42:13 · answer #4 · answered by Ryoko_Michiru87 IsFor Da Ben Dan 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
tough luck fella.
What is a normal female?
She is normal - she is living the life that she's comfortable in.
Better get on with your own life because she's NOT going to fit in yours. You can't change from straight woman to gay woman or the other way around.
The reason people think we're changing is because we are trying to find our way in this life and some of us take a little longer.than others.
2007-11-12 20:51:38 · answer #5 · answered by reme_1 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Lesbians ARE normal females. There are far too many heterosexuals who aren't normal for you to try to make those two words synonymous.
If you mean change her to heterosexual, then the answer is no. And why would you want to convert someone into a lifestyle which is unnatural for her anyway?
2007-11-12 22:28:07 · answer #6 · answered by Michael B - Prop. 8 Repealed! 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
not in all probability the norm in those factors besides. i will sympathize nonetheless, i'm a truck driving force and we had a clean driving force connect the gang who develop into as we want to assert a militant lesbian...kinda the notice we use for people who voice their existence form at times loudly and obnoxiously as though formidable those around them to ***** or talk back so as that they could yell discrimination! it rather is not courteous, it rather is in undesirable flavor, yet you will probably have the capacity to alter her. try changing the subject and don't combat hearth with hearth (as in start up conversing approximately your hetero intercourse lives). that could in basic terms upload gasoline. i be attentive to it rather is uninteresting yet attempt to maintain the communication artwork appropriate. If she is cool in any different case, attempt to forget approximately approximately this dark element of her and proceed to be pals for artwork's sake. only my techniques. good success.
2016-09-29 03:38:20 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first I want to point out that lesbians will be very offended at you referring to them as not "normal" and second...no one can change anyones sexual preference. People can and do change preferences on their own and its usually not something they make happen its something they "feel"
I hope this helps...sexual preference really isn't anything set in stone, but you can't make someone change their preference.
2007-11-12 20:39:03 · answer #8 · answered by bean 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
she's a lesbian so what?
why dont u try changing to an understanding Homo sapiens??
believe me, she can live in this world without you if you are so narrow minded
it will be shown, maybe in our lifetimes, that there is a strong genetic component to homosexuality--just like their is a strong genetic component to height, eye color...
GL
2007-11-12 20:39:51 · answer #9 · answered by Man of Ideas 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I must agree with Loofa. I can only add that the best way to alienate someone from your life is force them (by any means) to be something they are not. Robert
2007-11-13 00:37:31 · answer #10 · answered by Robert O 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋