I talk to my ex on the phone once a week. He calls me I dont call him. I dont mind we have good conversation but the feelings are still strong on my part. But he told me that he has strong feelings for a lady friend that has an STD (and a boyfriend).CRAZY! Why would he tell me that. I dont want to know. He told me a couple a weeks ago he could have seen us together if we had not moved apart??
His comment hurt my feelings
Im not messing with him at all (since we broke up) we live in two different states. Im just curious why the hell would he say that!!!
2007-11-12 15:21:30 · 11 answers · asked by ready 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is playing mind games with you. He knows you still have strong feelings for him, so for some reason or another he wants to toy with your emotions. Back in the day I knew guys who played games like this with their ex's. For the sake of your sanity you need to disassociate yourself from him and move on with your life. Find you someone who will love and appreciate you for the wonderful person you are and move on. Stop taking his calls, e-mails or any other means he may use to contact you. It is time for you to get on with your life and kick this fool, completely to the curb. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Peace and God bless.
2007-11-12 15:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by cave man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to hurt you. I would stay away from him. It's obvious he isn't in love with you anymore. You really need to try to move on hun and I know it hurts and I am sorry.
Exes can't be friends. There is too much history. He was really wrong and insensitive to even say that to you. Very heartless if you ask me. I really think he is playing mind games with you. Exes do that once they are divorced.
2007-11-12 15:42:30 · answer #2 · answered by conny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he could see you as a friend"confidant" and is looking for advice or the mind games continue, if you want to move on id limit your talking to him .
2007-11-12 15:29:32 · answer #3 · answered by halicon2000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's thinking he screwed up, LARGE!!! And you still have feelings for him? That's a lil scary too!! That's just one point of view. Just read Hubby's answer....give the man 10 points!!
2007-11-12 15:29:14 · answer #4 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hes trying to make you feel guilty for your seperation. Unless you like the pain and drama change your number.
2007-11-12 15:26:20 · answer #5 · answered by snrugglebau1 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I would guess he is actually seeing you as a friend. Shouldn't a friend be able to tell a friend anything?
If you are unable to have him as only a friend and not judge him, you should not take advantage.
2007-11-12 15:27:01 · answer #6 · answered by Hubby . 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yeah couples that don;t move apart tend to stay together (DUH) IS this an ex-bf or husband? EIther way, if he's going to raunch out liek that you just need to limit your contact with him. CHange your numbers.
2007-11-12 15:26:25 · answer #7 · answered by kttphoenix 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he was just feeling you out for your reaction ! OR maybe he has a death wish
2007-11-12 15:27:22 · answer #8 · answered by lenzix5 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
... he's resentful. Move on with your life. Forget about him. You'll do just fine.
2007-11-12 16:21:42 · answer #9 · answered by Justine 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
STD.....ewwww......Run B*t&h, Runnnnnnn!!!!! lol
2007-11-12 16:27:43 · answer #10 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋