Even men that are in their late 50's still make fools of us faithful ladies. I think it's thanks to Viagra. After 8 yrs of living together, I find recipets, on line hook ups, and questions he chokes on when I confront him. My heart is so broken. Nice guys finish last is so true. Sooooo hurt,crying tonight, why should I cry? I feel so used and foolish. He also told me he's BISEXUAL.Asked him for years if he was..said no,no,no! Even got violent!
2007-11-12 15:08:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well you should be glad he's out of your life! This man was unfaithful, a liar, and violent. You're better off without him.
2007-11-12 15:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men are more sexually vulnarable than woman. Their hormonal surges have a pattern quite different at different times. Women don't experience a man's sex drive until well after the age of 30. Men, its always at an unfair advantage. Usually when they are supposed to be establishing self respect, they are getting an erection at everything that walks and it is humiliating for them in their youth.
Women are always chastized about sex. You shouldn't do this or you shouldn't do that or your a hore... Even mariried women are still chastized if they even "think" about pleasure and sex because advertisements, tv, movies always connect purity with no sex and after sex, they are maimed or killed.
Its really interesting, but if you really study advertisements, you will find this to be true. Sexy women are vamps and impure while innocent women are to be rescued by their prince charming with no sex drive.
Its very imbalanced, isn't it? But, these stereotypes are created for a reason. That reason is to take away all guilt for cheating or having sex. If the woman is a hore, then its okay, right?
Do what I've accepted at a very young age after watching my cheating dad hurt my mother. Don't confuse sex with commitment so that when a man cheats, you have no emotional vested interest.
2007-11-12 15:21:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it somewhat is like if a guy asked why do women human beings no longer stay interior the kitchen? it somewhat is a thoroughly ignorant and generalized question and as a guy i'm indignant bc ive in no way cheated nor been cheated on. women persons are only as probably to cheat, thinking the adult men are in all possibility dishonest with women human beings. So who cheated on you?
2016-10-02 06:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question seems a little biased, women often cheat on men as well. Yes you have been cheated on, but that doesn't mean that all men cheat. Just like I have been cheated on, but that doesn't mean all women cheat. Its going to be tough, but it is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all. Yea maybe your significant other was a jerk and cheated, but don't lose all faith in men entirely. There are many good ones left.
2007-11-12 15:19:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys cheat, but it is easier for guys to cheat because sex isn't as emotional to us. In your case and always the truth comes out. You have indicated that you found a lot of evidence that he was cheating and that's always the case that the signs are there. Plus he probably has been out a lot without a good explanation. He has also indicated that he is also bi-sexual, which increases his and your chances of getting a STD.
At this point you have to ask yourself why I'm with someone who is a liar, a cheat and treats you like a jerk. There are many other fish in the sea and they are not all like this and there are good guys out there.
When you are talking about nice guys you are probably referring to guys that lack confidence and are not challenging because they will do everything you tell them. But there are good guys that are out there with confidence. No one's perfect but you need to leave this disaster of a relationship in my opinion.
2007-11-12 15:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm soo terribly sorry to hear that, darlin'. It's a sad thing. Sometimes people are just confused and so ashamed that they can't tell others...it's like a fight within their own mind. And the cheating thing is definitely hard to deal with. Because that makes you question your self worth...but trust me. As hard as it may sound, you have to leave it behind...don't dwell on it...because you will convinve yourself that you weren't good enough...when the trust is that you were better than that...he just wasn't good enough. Stay strong, you can get through it...
2007-11-12 15:14:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
And those are the kind of men who make you think like we're all monsters. Don't make assumptions based off of personal experience, ESPECIALLY on such a broad topic. Yeah, we're all jerks at times, but so are women. Everyone is at least once and a while. It's human nature. He probably just couldn't control his impulses.
2007-11-12 15:13:25 · answer #7 · answered by Brendan D 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is not easy for a real man to cheat. Those that do are NOT men....they are grown boys that never learned self control or respect.
2007-11-12 16:04:52 · answer #8 · answered by Hubby . 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be careful my friend if he got violent. Sounds like the guy is a jerk. Pray about this and seek God's wisdom, and look to close friends. Be careful
2007-11-12 15:12:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath, say, "Now I'm going to get the great guy I deserve," and move on.
If the violence is an issue, call the police right now.
2007-11-12 15:13:15 · answer #10 · answered by The Oracle 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋