2007-11-12 15:08:33 · 22 answers · asked by [192882] 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I let love find me. Only... love usually screws me over when I wasn't asking for it in the first place.
2007-11-12 15:14:13 · update #1
Love always comes chasing after me. Unfortunately, a lot of the time it was a maniacal chainsaw-swinging woman!
2007-11-12 16:47:35 · answer #1 · answered by Dominus 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From my own experience, looking for love can be frustrating as it seems like you're always winding up with dead ends or attracting people who are not your type.
Letting love find you is probably more ideal...although it doesn't always happen. It definitely won't happen if you just stay at home and not socialize with other people.
The key I guess is to strike a balance. Be social and get to know new people but don't be overzealous in your expectations of finding love when you want it.
2007-11-12 15:12:20 · answer #2 · answered by I.P. F 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
In my first relationship, I looked for it. It was a horrible relationship. I loved her intensely and she couldn't reciprocate on that same level.
They second time I fell in love, I couldn't have been looking less. I was in the thick of my club days and wasn't interested in a relationship. My current girlfriend was just too damn gorgeous and interesting for me to let go. So it found me. In my experience, it's better that way.
2007-11-12 15:21:10 · answer #3 · answered by Legs 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Right now it's letting love find me.
Though lately I've been feeling like I need to get off my lazy *** and go search for something lol
2007-11-12 15:16:43 · answer #4 · answered by The Smile Man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i prefer to go about my business with my eyes open. if you aren't actively searching for something how can you ever find it, but sometimes searching for something too hard and you'll miss everything else that has come along, so i say go about your business with your eyes open. a)you'll have options. b)you don't feel the disappointment of finding nothing. c) it's good because sometimes you just don't really know what you are looking for
2007-11-12 23:21:28 · answer #5 · answered by mandarinsdream 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let love find you ... it's amazing when it knock on your door. But sometimes it's much better to find love especially when you are not that lucky
2007-11-12 18:34:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't look for love... probably why I don't get much =\
It may be a bit old fashioned, but as the poet said, "We cannot fight for love, as men may do;/ We should be wood and were not made to woo."
2007-11-12 15:57:20 · answer #7 · answered by blackcat3556 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the past, when I've looked for love, I just found shallow flings. When I was happy being single, love found me!
2007-11-12 15:13:35 · answer #8 · answered by Latte 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hey Iam looking and my description is:
A passionate male, caring, compromising and strong at 38 years of age. Divorced and single.
Any one there looking may mail me direct at my ID instead of yahoo answers. guyc70@yahoo.com
2007-11-13 19:18:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we all look for people to love, but once in love, feel as though love itself has found us.
2007-11-12 15:11:19 · answer #10 · answered by Buying is Voting 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋