please share your story
I asked a basic question about alimony and I got called a lazy beitch etc...
but i was going through yahoo and i see that this happens to alot of people
so,I guess what im really asking is why do the people on her get so nasty,and how do you guys respond??
2007-11-12 14:58:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
lmao vis i know i agree
but what if you cant im or even email them aaarrgghhh!!
2007-11-12 15:06:12 · update #1
hubby...WHATEVER!!
2007-11-12 15:18:41 · update #2
kim made another point I had forgot to mention,,yeah,whats up with the thumbs down thing to perfectly good answers??
just for the record,I am not responsible for any thumbs down here,i either thumbed up or not at all!
2007-11-12 18:36:01 · update #3
There are some people who just really enjoy insulting people. It's like a hobby to them. They like to come here because they can be as mean as they want with no real repercussions.
The best response is to NOT respond. Engaging them in "conversation" only adds fuel to their fire and makes them feel better about their sad little lives.
2007-11-12 15:10:18 · answer #1 · answered by looneybin90 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are going to get a lot of answers, and all you can do is ignore them. (Or give them thumbs down and they go away. )
People get nasty because either they ARE nasty, or they have had a nasty experience.
Since you don't share your questions, I am going to share some of my feelings here instead of your other question. When my parents got divorced (I was in my 20s, but had a brother in his teens) I called my mom some pretty nasty names for "taking alimony" because, basically, I thought of it as the same as getting paid for sex.
Now I have grown some. I have seen how being out of the workforce really affects many things like your ability to make income, your retirement savings, and the respect you get in the workforce. My mother will never make the money she would have made had she not taken 15 years off to raise a family. Honestly, she is so bright and hard working, I think she could be easily making double what she makes now. Plus, she has to save for her own retirement -- they were together 28 years so that is a LOT to be saving up.
Don't let people get you down with their responses. This is an open forum, and so you will get a lot of opinions. Just listen to the ones that seem sincere (not necessarily just the ones you agree with) and ignore the rest. And don't rely on anything you see here as more than just someone's opinion.
2007-11-12 15:07:08 · answer #2 · answered by mj69catz 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There are a lot of ignorant people on here. They also go around giving people the thumbs down for decent answers. I don't know what is wrong with them. Hopefully you got some good answers to your questions.
2007-11-12 16:55:37 · answer #3 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-08 20:15:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure it has happened to alot of people on here just ignore the nasty people and get the advice or information you were looking for. Dont give up
2007-11-12 15:03:17 · answer #5 · answered by n.s. 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you walk like a duck and quack like a duck, why do you get offended when someone calls you a duck?
Remember, the value of an answer, is not based on how close it comes to your own thoughts, but how close it comes to the truth.
2007-11-12 15:10:36 · answer #6 · answered by Hubby . 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Yes and it's ignorant. But you have to rise above that. Ignore it and go on. Take it with a grain of salt.
2007-11-12 16:02:54 · answer #7 · answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They have probably had a bad experience with that type of situation and were venting their own anger, attacking you because of their baggage from being burned.
2007-11-12 15:07:07 · answer #8 · answered by I tell it like it is 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First - recognize the issue is with the other person. Smile politely - say "thank you" and find someone else to talk to - QUICKLY!
2007-11-12 15:01:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i say what i think but i am never rude or insulting as it is not called for
2007-11-12 15:01:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋