It will make it everything more enjoyable. It will not be so much less physically painful as much as it WILL be LESS heartfelt pain.
God has reasons for commanding us to remain pure, or to try to as much as we can. Statistics show that married couples who waited have less problems, emotionally, and health speaking. More people are trying to remain pure than it may seem. So hang in there and press on! Hint: ask God for help.
PS Don't listen to fools. Pretty much all people have the same abilities to have sex. Just take a minute to think about the lack of wisdom behind that "take the test drive/ what if bad lover" comment.
2007-11-12 15:04:14
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answered by Anonymous
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I am not sure about that but it will prevent a girl from becoming one of the thousands of unwed mothers. No matter how much in love someone may be, there is a chance for that love to not work out if there isn't a commitment and then one might as well wait until after the marriage.
2007-11-12 15:00:34
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answered by Al B 7
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Maybe, it does make the honey moon more enjoyable. You really need to save something for marriage becasue what is the point if you dont. I dont know about the less painful thing it would prolly feel the same .
2007-11-12 15:00:05
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answered by Ash 3
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2016-05-18 07:10:04
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answered by Wendy 4
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That depends on your beliefs. I had sex before I was married and I enjoyed it then and I enjoy it now. Maybe being married will make you feel in a more committed relationship therefor making you feel more open and comfortable with your partner. If on the other hand you already feel that way then ....
lol Ask yourself if you look back on it later in life will you regret not waiting? Will you feel ashamed to tell people of your decision like your family and future kids? Good luck with your decision
2007-11-12 15:11:20
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answered by n.s. 2
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I believe so. but some feel like they would have missed out on the experience of being with other people. That is a decision you have to make with your partner. If you think you're ready then go ahead, but if you would like to have that first time feeling with the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with then try to hold out. but just to let you know waiting wont ease the pain. it will hurt no matter when you do it.
2007-11-12 15:02:05
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answered by ♥klove♥ 3
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No
joy or pain is a consequence of making choices.
abstaining from choosing only delays the results.
sometimes a delay makes sense, sometimes a delay makes the outcome much worse. skill in choosing requires practice which gains you experience. experience helps you make better choices.
its is the mind and the heart that make sex enjoyable. if you can find a man who ignites the flames of passion within you. Then the sex will be great, if you can not find him, the the sex will suck. many find it difficult to find the right partner if they have little experience in sex.
good luck
2007-11-12 15:16:58
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answered by Brad456 5
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wont be less painful but it wil be more enjoyable knowing that you saved your self for the Honeymoon. I know a lot of people that wish they would of waited until their wedding night.
2007-11-12 15:03:01
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answered by bella s 3
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I say save marriage for marriage...what does sex have to do with love?
The only person I have ever known that was saving herself for marriage, was out to marry anyone she could land after a while. She wanted intimacy so bad, so did not really care with whom. She is now married and not very happy.
2007-11-12 15:16:19
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answered by Hubby . 3
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Nope.
Edit - To those who say "If you wait you won't know if the sex is bad or not." That is a total LIE! Sex isn't rocket science. It is pretty easy to tell if the sex is crap or not.
2007-11-12 15:22:36
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answered by Poppet 7
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