What ways could a judge handle this situation?

Question

My Ex has physical placement of our son, we have joint custody. About a year ago, he decided he wasn't going to allow me to take the child for visits because we disagreed on certain things. (At that point he wasn't in violation of the visitation order because it stated visitation was as the parties "mutually agree" upon). I then petitioned the court to get a specific visitation schedule, amongst other things that were going on that needed to be dealt with. The judge ruled in my favor and a very specific order was put into place. Now, he is violating the order by not allowing all of my scheduled visits, and violating some other things. He also, he has my son, who is 10, believing that I am the one failing to want to see him, or spend time with him. I went ahead an filed a violation petition, which I am awaiting a court date. Does anyone have an idea of the possible ways the judge might deal with the situation?

Also would like to add that we reside in NY. I am current on child support payments. My contact with my son is in school, because I work at his school.

The other things we disagreed on were him nit-picking about where I take my son, what family members I allow him to see. His father has certain grudges against these family members and "forbid" me to take my son to these places. I in turn told him he had no right to tell me how to spend my time with my son. There was also a specific order about him allowing our son to see/hear adult content by TV and music. He and his wife also undermining things I would do for my son, and telling him that I was basically a "loser".

Answer 1

I know it doesn't feel like it now, but your ex's BS will backfire in a few short years.

As long as you hold yourself to high standards.

Never bad mouth your ex to your son (no matter how much he deserves it), always have rules and limits, and be the most fun you can be while being strict too.

Goodl luck dear

Answer 2

Talk to the bailiff of the judge who heard your divorce case. The bailiff will explain what you need to do for the court to help you. If you can prove that your ex is preventing you from contacting your son, then you have every right to have a hearing concerning the custody of the child.

If you were ordered to pay child support but have not been keeping up on it, then you have to pay up before you get to see your child if the primary custodian so chooses.

Answer 3

If he's not permitting you visitation privileges he's in violation notwithstanding the load of information is the aspect that ought to reason this to flow one way or the different. i ought to recommend you in case you have not accomplished so, write down the dates and a depiction of the violation so that you've a paper path or in different words information that the violations have befell. because you do not have custody, i'm assuming that you're paying baby help and that that is up as a lot as now. see you later as you have not dedicated any violations concerning the Order, the choose will more suitable than in all probability locate him in Contempt of the youngster Visitation Order and how he chooses to penalise him is as a lot because the choose and the state you stay in.

Answer 4

well, I am not a lawyer, but it looks like you are wrong and your husband is right, because I dont understand you when you said ," he disagreed on certain things " why dont you sit with your ex and try to solve these small problems without involving the lawyers and the courts, they cost you too much for nothing, and trust me, his father loves him as much as you do. and may be more

Answer 5

depends on the state... in GA, the judge could hold him in contempt, change custody, award attorney fees against him