my husband was getting a ride from his friend and all of the sudden his frined takes him along with him to visit other people knowing my husband has to be home early because he works early and has a wife to come home to...
his friends are all still single and unmarried
2007-11-12 14:08:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is your husband's problem...and you need to make it his problem. Explain to him that you understand that it can be hard to assert himself to his friends but you need ot be able to rely on him and if he has to take a taxi to get home to fulfill his obligation to his family then that is ok by you...
But be careful, make sure he isn't just making an excuse...he could be needing a little guy time so make sure that you are balancing out his "required family time" with a little "hubby free time"...and don't be too hard on him...just lovingly reinforce what he probably already knows...that you were disappointed that he was late and maybe next time he will ___(fill in the blank)___.
2007-11-12 14:26:06 · answer #1 · answered by joellemoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, don't be that niave. If the hubby really wanted to come home, they would have dropped him off. Chances are, he's enjoying his taste of the single life as he tags along with these people. If he didn't, he'd opt for a different form of transportation. If you want better advice, sit down and tell the hubby enough is enough. He either starts acting like a responsible married man or he can enjoy the single life on a permanent basis because you deserve better than this.
2007-11-12 14:31:20 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-11 07:57:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't "deal" with your husband's friends and cousins.
You AREN'T married to THEM ... These people have NOT
made a commitment to you; they have NOT taken VOWS with you.
This isn't about the "friends" or the "cousins!" .... It is about
YOUR husband .... and the choices that HE is making.
Your husband is responsible for setting appropriate priorities
for a married man.
DEAL WITH YOUR HUSBAND .... START THERE!
2007-11-12 14:16:38 · answer #4 · answered by kjh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's loving it but he's putting the blame on others because he's not driving. How brilliant!! Pull some of that stuff on him and not be home when he gets home until it's bedtime and then say booyah now you know how I feel.
2007-11-12 14:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by Shalene C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your Husband is old enough to speak up to his friends and say i cant go with you i reallly want to be home early i have to get up early and my wife is waiting.
2007-11-12 14:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by Conteplative 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is why your husband didn't insist he be dropped off first if he was really tired and dying to get home to you.
2007-11-12 14:12:20 · answer #7 · answered by Marina 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to express what you think to your husband. He is the one that needs to speak up and say something. Put your foot down.
2007-11-12 14:19:15 · answer #8 · answered by mommy08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did just this happen once? Or does it happen a lot?
If it was a one time occurance I don't think it's a big deal- men need "guy time" once in a while just like we girls need our "girl time" sometimes.
If it happens all the time then you need to talk to your husband about this.
2007-11-12 14:17:49 · answer #9 · answered by looneybin90 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband needs to tell them and he needs to not go with them of they are gonna act like that.
2007-11-12 15:15:54 · answer #10 · answered by bella s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋