what if your married and your spouse dies. Later you decide to move on and re-marry... what happens when you go to heaven? Would you accept your spouse to move on if you died??
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2007-11-12 11:08:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I never been married or anything, but the main question is if you would want your spouse to remarry? Also if they're considered the love of your life, why do you love someone else?
random thoughts lol
2007-11-12 11:17:03 · update #1
I would want my hubby to remarry if i died. He would never survive without a woman around lol.
2007-11-12 11:11:58 · answer #1 · answered by peacesells21 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Part of life is dying. Some go earlier in life, some later. I honestly don't think that you'd ever find a spouse saying to the other......if I die, I don't want you to remarry anyone. That to me is a selfish act and I know my husband would never say it. Your spouse, whether when he's dead or alive, wants for you to be happy. Thats it. He don't expect you to stay home and live a life of a hermit.
As for heaven, I'm most certain that once you get there, your husband would be like........I'm so grateful that you met JOHN to fill the emptiness that was left behind when I died. You'll still be able to share your stories and such with him and just because he's gone, it don't mean you've stopped loving him. You will always love him because he was your husband and you shared a life together.
Life is like a book...................its filled with many chapters. Move on to the next chapter and enjoy your new life. that is what he'd want. :)
2007-11-12 11:19:50 · answer #2 · answered by Cate 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
*~* Gezz, This Is A Tricky Question, I Think That In Life Everyone Has The Right To Be Happy, And If That Means Moving On From A Heartbreaking Situation, Well I Guess Thats Just The Way It Is, But I Mean The Answer To The Heaven Part Is Diffucult, No One On Earth Could Answer It, Because Bascially We Dont Know, Until We Get There. *~*
2007-11-12 11:14:40 · answer #3 · answered by * STAR * 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think its ok. if your spouse dies, it may be a while before you're ready to re-marry, but its better than living the rest of your life alone, we all need somebody
i would be ok if my wife were to re-marry after i passed.
2007-11-12 11:18:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You really need to understand Heaven better. Bottom line: this is a non-issue. All three of you will completely understand. Worry not. Get busy living and forget about dying.
2007-11-12 11:12:20 · answer #5 · answered by TryItOnce 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when he moves on u move on, learn how to reconstruct your life and focuse on your happeniess, more than anybodys elses. A heart takes time to heal so love live your life and dont take anything for granted:)
2007-11-12 11:14:02 · answer #6 · answered by Mz.Swag 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would want my spouse to move on and be happy if I died.
That's why I know he would want me to move on and be happy now that he's gone.
2007-11-12 11:50:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
there's no proof that you'll "see your spouse in heaven"... so why are you so worried? If you moved on then do just that...move on.
You can't be expected to be alone the rest of your life. it's not healthy.
2007-11-12 11:12:19 · answer #8 · answered by Lana B 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well...if something ever happened to my spouse...I couldn't be with anybody else...just wouldn't feel right to me...and I know she would be waiting for me on the other side...I would not want to let her down...Good luck
2007-11-12 11:13:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
You feel like crap for a couple years...but you get over it. When you get to heaven, you all have an orgy because everyone loves everyone in heaven. It's ok...
2007-11-12 11:12:29 · answer #10 · answered by StayThirstyMyFriends 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋