I got good answers and felt better, then got some more news... WTF!!! now his little sister is pregnant also ??? shes only 17!!! with no JOB and no guy and ARrrrhhhhhgggg what the heck is going on here??????
2007-11-12 11:06:24 · 3 answers · asked by Baby Girl due Sept 5th!!!!!!!!!! 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
OK I need some Support....trying not to be bitter...?
Ok here is the Deal, we are together 5 years and working hard to put our life on track (finished college, being employed, working towards buying a house) before we conceive, things are nearing a readying point...its been a long wait but we're almost there...then His little brother (20) comes along who i have to say was recently arrested, and does drugs, has no job and lives off of their grandmother, and owns guns...and he and his girlfriend tell us last year that they were pregnant...then supposedly they "miscarried" now again they have been pregnant but they say she was preg. the whole time( just nonsensical lies)...and so on so today they email us to tell us that they are having a boy...I want to be supportive BUT GOD!!! why does it have to happen to them... we have been working so hard to have the right home life for a child and we are both older(25)than they are....what if it never happens for us ...and THEY keep popping out kid
2007-11-12 11:08:30 · update #1
OK I need some Support....trying not to be bitter...?
Ok here is the Deal, we are together 5 years and working hard to put our life on track (finished college, being employed, working towards buying a house) before we conceive, things are nearing a readying point...its been a long wait but we're almost there...then His little brother (20) comes along who i have to say was recently arrested, and does drugs, has no job and lives off of their grandmother, and owns guns...and he and his girlfriend tell us last year that they were pregnant...then supposedly they "miscarried" now again they have been pregnant but they say she was preg. the whole time( just nonsensical lies)...and so on so today they email us to tell us that they are having a boy...I want to be supportive BUT GOD!!! why does it have to happen to them... we have been working so hard to have the right home life for a child and we are both older(25)than they are....what if it never happens for us ...and THEY keep popping out kid
2007-11-12 11:08:32 · update #2
I just dont think you should focus on it. why make your self angry, jealous, and un happy by focusing on what you DON"T have...besides you have other stuff they don't... stability!
So quit being negative!!!!!
2007-11-12 11:19:05 · answer #1 · answered by ♥cutemamma♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This situation must be very frustrating for you, when you are trying to do everything right and see others raising kids who don't have the ability to do so successfully. The best thing you can remember is that their baby will need stable adults in his lives that he can count on, because his parents obviously are pretty irresponsible. So focus on being there for your new nephew, and try to forget about the unfortunate circumstances in which he was conceived.
2007-11-12 19:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by missbeans 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like those kids didn't go through sex education in school.
I know it must be tough for you to hear that everyone around you who is not trying to have children and not even prepared to- are indeed having children. You are being very responsible by waiting until you and your husband are financially stable and what not so don't worry about anything and when it is your time, you will have a child. Good luck to you.
2007-11-12 19:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by Madison 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋