My husband i would like to have a baby. He wants one a little further down the road then i do. Is there any way that while we are having sex i could maybe convince him to go that way i can get pregnant. I am ovulating this week and need to get him to go.
2007-11-12 10:57:25 · 7 answers · asked by twinkle 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
For a man, a lot of the decision comes down to money, and career issues, as well as readiness to be parents. You have to make an arguement to him that shows him that you can indeed afford a child. You could crunch the numbers yourself, that would show him that you are really serious about this, and it isn't just some "girly baby-hormone" thing. As far as parental readiness, no one is ever ready, no matter how much they "study". Assure him that this is something you will learn together. From your end, prepare to make some compromises, too. If he doesn't want a child until "down the road" then it is very unlikely that you'll be able to convince him to start trying this week. You may be able to talk him into starting to try within a year though. I know you don't want to wait, but relationships are about give and take.
Under no circumstances should you trick him into getting you pregnant.
2007-11-12 11:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by missbeans 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To maximize the sperm-meet-egg probability you can try the following formula:
Ask your partner to abstain from masturbation. All of the sperm must be saved for you.
Pinpoint your days of ovulation (you can buy an over-the-counter test for greater accuracy) and have sex every day you are ovulating.
Make sure you have attended to all of your nightly rituals (brushing teeth, the final pee, etc.) before getting into bed.
Have sex in the missionary position, with ankles behind the ears (if possible) during ejaculation for maximum penetration.
After your partner dismounts, remain still and position a pillow under your tush to elevate your pelvis. Put a small towel or washcloth between your legs to catch any dripping fluids.
Go to sleep and don't get out of bed until morning.
2007-11-12 19:46:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't talk to him about it in the middle of sex. say something that morning or something, and try to let the idea grow on him. if you trick him into getting you pregnant he won't be as good of a father as he could me. he will resent you and the baby, and that would be awful.
2007-11-12 19:11:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My sister in law just said if you don't then we can't have sex. It worked for her. You can tell him that people with families say there is never a right time. You will always have an excuse not to. So just do it. Good luck!
2007-11-12 19:03:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Don't do it behind his back before he is ready. He could end up resenting you any time he feeld stressed as a parent.
2007-11-12 19:05:07 · answer #5 · answered by tuckerlucydog 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO HIM AND LET HIM KNOW YOUR FEELING AND HOW SERIOUS THIS IS TO YOU BUT ALSO UNDERSTAND IT SHOULD BE A MUTUAL DECISION AND YOU HAVE TO RESPECT THAT
2007-11-12 19:03:16 · answer #6 · answered by mommy09 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
sit down and talk with him
2007-11-12 19:02:14 · answer #7 · answered by A***n G 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋