2007-11-12 10:35:56 · 20 answers · asked by Jyse 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
For me, his personality, his smile, his sense of humor, and just him. He's a totally sweet guy, made me laugh at a time when I really needed it even when we were just friends, he was just there for me.
2007-11-12 10:46:14 · update #1
antdakll, if I didn't know better, I'd swear you are my boyfriend...
2007-11-12 10:48:08 · update #2
I was attracted to his nice friendly manner, he has a sweet disposition, and a great sense of humor. I got to know him online a few months before we ever met. When we did meet our online friendship carried right over into real life. He is my soul mate.
2007-11-12 10:44:43 · answer #1 · answered by Antdak 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
At first, it was his attitude. When he started working where I was working, I really paid little attention to him (we worked in different departements and he always seemed like a jerk) but after a few chance encounters, I got ot know him better and he seemed so interesting. It was only after really getting to know him that I began to understand how very attractive he was. It was his attitude, his personality, his passion that interested me. He was quite attractive, but that only added to that which he was - a great man to be around. Time and circumstances took us away from each other, but in many ways, I have learned alot from him that I am not sure that I will ever forget. Plus, he had a cool car! Haha, just kidding.
2007-11-12 11:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by Alexi 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When I first saw him I wasn't very attracted to him at all, but then when I started talking to him I thought "Yeah.... you're quite sweet aren't you" and the more I got to know him the more that feeling was confirmed.
Ah well. 17 years later and having just broken up I guess somewhere along the line he stopped being sweet.
2007-11-12 20:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by Louise H 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The sexual attraction brings me in but the personality attraction keeps me. I've had many cases of dating someone who I was physically attracted to but not mentally or emotionally and vice versa so I always need both for a balance.
2007-11-12 10:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by Roswell 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
SKIN COLOR!
When I was young, my mother would bake from scratch the best damn brownies this world has seen. After she was done whipping the mix, she'd give me the spoon - all covered in dark rich chocolate.
My ex-lover was the same color as that chocolate - as dark as the brownies I used to love. And, every time we kissed, it was like I was a little boy again, licking the spoon....
2007-11-12 12:22:34 · answer #5 · answered by Jonathan W. Jones 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
My ex first attracted me because of the fact he become very knowledgeable, charismatic, humorous and continuously had something exciting to declare. He become very clever approximately history and could continuously communicate regarding the history of our city and whatnot.
2016-11-11 07:18:47 · answer #6 · answered by goerdt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Initially she looked fantastic, great looks and body with a great personality.
Intelligent and fun to be with.
Unfortunately people change.
2007-11-13 00:05:48 · answer #7 · answered by Tony H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was eating at the place he works and he was the server for the table across from me so I did notice his butt a lot. But the first thing i saw was his eyes. He smiled at me and I could tell he was looking at me everytime he went to his table.
2007-11-12 11:06:27 · answer #8 · answered by Michael K 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
what really attracted to me to my girlfriend is her personality, good sense of humor, her looks, the way she carry herself,nice attitude,and her naughty side of her. the things she liked;i liked.
2007-11-12 10:49:46 · answer #9 · answered by cenithia t 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Boyfriend - His sense odf humor and how confident he was. It radiated from his and was very sexy.
Girlfriend - Her sureness about herself and her confidence to do what she believed in and her attitude. She didnt care what people thought of her. Very sexy confidence.
Overall it was confidence that they radiated that attracted me to both of them.
2007-11-12 10:43:50 · answer #10 · answered by Steffie_crumpet89 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋