Like, have you ever had an initial attraction and while getting to know them or hearing them speak, they'll say something you weren't expecting and then thee attraction is gone?
That has happened to me recently in which the person I was interested in went on some sort of incoherent speech about his religion and I was like 'Grr, shut up, shut up, shut up! ._. Just sit there and look cute!'
Since then I've lost any real desire to even talk to him just because I don't think it would ever work. He was hot too :(
Anyway, has something like that put you off before?
2007-11-12 10:03:53 · 36 answers · asked by The Smile Man 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Ooooh my yes, I went out with this guy, and he was so awesome before hand. We chatted on messanger a few times, and then decided to meet up.. So we get to talking, and every story he was telling me was how only HE could fix the problem (he does something for the LA County Search and Rescue squad).. And like any work or personal related thing I told him, he had to one up me. Well woh.. Haha so I decided that one date was quite enough.
2007-11-12 16:32:20 · answer #1 · answered by Gecko Missed all his friends 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This happens more times a day throughout the world than you can imagine my friend.
I've had the same things happen to me; sometimes I can get past it if I give it a try and meet with them several times, and other times I realize the chemistry may not be there to continue the friendship.
I'm probably going to get neged for saying this, but religious people are whacked out of their minds. Religion is part of what caused 911.
Reverend Phelps claims to be religious and thinks it's perfectly sane to picket any G&L event with signs that say, "God Hates Fags".
The late Jerry Falwell refused to believe and could not understand the concept that wow, people really are born homosexual. They think it's some type of aberration.. It's far to common in nature among humans and other species to be considered an aberration
2007-11-14 07:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let me say first that there are TWO guys in my English Literature class that I was attracted to at the beginning of the year. WAS.
We were discussing "Perception vs Reality" in class one day, and one of them just went into a big long rant about how it's "smarter" to believe in an absolute truth because it's less "risky" (like, in a fundie vs universalist argument, if the fundie is right, then the universalist WILL go to hell, but if the universalist is right, the fundie doesn't suffer anything).
I just sat there, held my head, and mentally muttered "Shut up, shut up. Why couldn't you keep your trap shut and just look hot?"
Good news was, hot guy #2 kept his mouth shut the entire time, and even yelled at hot guy #1 to shut up. He's still hot in my book.
2007-11-12 10:55:49 · answer #3 · answered by Jim W 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OH yeah. There's a guy I really like and he's in several of my classes. He's quite a bit of eye candy! However, I just found out a few days ago that he is a VERY conservative Republican. He went on a huge rant about how it's "Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve". Naturally, I was a bit put off (considering I'm gay, I really don't appreciate bashers). Too bad, too...he was hot!
2007-11-12 11:41:28 · answer #4 · answered by That Gay Guy for Da Ben Dan 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
lol, yes. Sometimes it will just be some little thing that will turn me off, once when I was dating(married now) I really liked this guy, the first few times we went out he looked really nice. On our third date he showed up wearing a big bulky sweatshirt, thin shiny dress pants and dirty running shoes. I know it is mean, but that instantly turned me off of him. I felt embarrassed to be seen with him, but what else could I do? He also talked with his mouth full, so that was the second turn off.
2007-11-12 10:19:45 · answer #5 · answered by Stuck in the middle of nowhere 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of Course!
Just wait until you go to the bath house and up on the Secluded Deck out in the Summer Moonlight is the Perfect Young Sweetheart with the Perfect piece of Meat just for you.. Just laying there totally nude, totally hard, smiling at you and ready for service...... And Then... you start to Blow Him and He just Lays there and....... ABSoLUTELY ..NoTHING ..HaPPeNS !!!
In a couple of minutes you realize that he has less Brains than a Cucumber !
So much for the Priority of Sex, you say to your self !
And on you Go to Better and more Important things in your life !
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Like looking for warm-hearted Love BEFORE you check out the sex angle !!
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Davie Monster Gets Around !!
2007-11-12 10:36:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I met this really hot guy at a club a few months ago and we hit it off right away, he bought me a drink and we danced. We had a great time untill he desided to ask me back to his hotel for some fun. Oh well, I guess some people are only about sex.
2007-11-12 10:17:30 · answer #7 · answered by Michael K 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Once. When I was in high school. There was this really pretty girl that I was crushing on and I really thought she was nice too but it turned out that she was backstabbing a lot of people through spreading nasty rumors. That was the end of that for me, I didn't even try to be friends with her. Geez.
2007-11-12 10:11:31 · answer #8 · answered by J. McCoy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YES! I've found many guys attractive and then they start to brag about their "conquests", such a huge turn off. I know we all have a past, but I don't need you basically pointing out to me that you've slept with half of my state. That's a HUGE turn off to me and those guys I always let go after one date, if they even made it to a date with me... Because no way would I be with someone like that.
2007-11-12 10:08:03 · answer #9 · answered by Jyse 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think we've all been there at some point - and those of us who haven't yet will find themselves there eventually. I remember one particularly disappointing guy who was really good looking and intelligent and funny. I thought "jackpot!" until, unfortunately, he turned out to be a racist bigot. Ugliness comes in many forms other than just the physical.
2007-11-12 10:15:01 · answer #10 · answered by thatgaybloke 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋