Ever have the feeling like you just need a little variety once in a while? If so, have you ever acted on it/would you ever do it again?
2007-11-12 09:25:06 · 17 answers · asked by resurrected 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes.
Yes.
And I refuse to answer on the grounds that it may incriminate me!
2007-11-12 09:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
My fiance and I have been together for two years, engaged for most of that. I have never had the urge to cheat on him. My motto is if you have a Cadillac in your garage, why ride a push bike to work? No one compares to my fiance for me, I am marrying him because he is everything I need and want in a partner. I have seen what other men have to offer before I met him, and I can't say I'd ever want to go back to that on pain of death. I have a beautiful relationship, with a great sex life and my man who is my best friend. What else could I want?
I believe that if you want 'variety' then you shouldn't be married, it only causes your partner pain and if you love them that is the last thing you'd ever want to do.
2007-11-12 09:36:28 · answer #2 · answered by kinkykiosk 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think all people as human beings male or female get the urge for change. however acting on those urges can cause a great deal of pain and hurt feelings. If you are feeling those urges. It is a good idea to talk to your spouse about it. If you think they can handle it. That way you can at least discuss fun options to bring into the relationship. Keep the talk light though. Not everyone is open to all things.
2007-11-12 09:28:53 · answer #3 · answered by Lilmouse 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. Sex gets so much better, so much more interesting when you are with someone long enough to venture forward together, someone you can trust to explain the most deep of your desires to. Someone that trusts you to do the same. There is vastly more variety with that one man than with any affair or casual encounter.
2007-11-12 15:20:00 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. McK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I watch enough Cheaters episodes to get me to never cheat in my life! I'm very faithful and I'll always be that way. Married or even just dating. I think people who cheat are weak and are selfish. They only care about themselves and in the end I realize they screw themselves over. I have enough self-control to know what i'm doing at all times.I just hope I marry someone that respects marriage as much as I do.
P.S. I hear they wanna make infideltiy in a marriage Illegal...suckers!!
2007-11-12 09:29:56 · answer #5 · answered by Kimber 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No when I married my husband it was for life and I don't need anyone else like that.
If you need variety you kink it up a notch.
You don't need another man to do that with.
2007-11-12 09:28:47 · answer #6 · answered by CrazyH 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope! I am very happy where I am and have never had to urge to think of anyone else..
2007-11-12 09:31:01 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Jack Sparrow ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely NOT. When you are with someone who is
everything you ever wanted, you never want to be with
anyone else.
2007-11-12 09:32:10 · answer #8 · answered by doodlebug 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife says no but I could try a little harder to change her mind hopefully! When I got married and the minister asked would you take this woman? I said would you!!!!!!!
2007-11-12 09:34:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm not a married woman but I have been with 7 so I guess thats a yes.
2007-11-12 09:27:51 · answer #10 · answered by Po 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋