Hi, i think i might be gay. I think about boys in my classroom but i have had girlfriends in the past. Spmetimes people have called me gay and it sometimes is upsetting. I like this boy but he isnt gay. I dont know what to do. I dont think i wanna be gay but it seems like i should be. Im scared to tell anyone
2007-11-12 09:08:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
then dont tell,its ur desision-Edit i meant its ur desision to tell or not.--not to be gay or str8 i dont believe thats a choice.
2007-11-12 09:12:28 · answer #1 · answered by tasty 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Having had girlfriends doesn't mean you're not gay. Teenagers experiment a lot with sex because it's part of finding out who you are, what you like, and what you need.
On the other hand, someone calling you gay doesn't mean you are. For one thing, some people call others "gay" because of their own fears and insecurities, and think that if they go around calling people gay as if it were a terrible thing, no one will think that maybe THEY are gay.
I don't blame you for not wanting to be gay, because life is hard enough without making things even more complicated. But if you are, you are, and if you accept and understand that it's as normal as being left-handed (not the majority and sometimes difficult, but perfectly ok) you'll be fine.
Some of the most intelligent, creative, successful people in the world are gay, happy, and proud. You might be one of them!
2007-11-12 09:18:38 · answer #2 · answered by Karsten S 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-02 05:25:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Tasty" is wrong... it's not a "decision" to be gay... if you are... but you certainly don't have to get all worked up about it at 14... you have time ... plenty of time.... I would say the best thing you could do is just be yourself... If you like a boy... then maybe see where that goes... maybe make some gay friends ... so you can get an idea of whether or not you "fit in" ... I went through having a girlfriend... the marrying her... then divorcing her... before I did enough self introspection to admit that yes... I'm 100% gay... and much happier now that I'm out and with the love of my life... I wish I had had the balls to do it sooner....
2007-11-12 09:21:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey Bro chill.There's no rush for you to tell anyone anything until you have acquired the wisdom in life to make you feel comfortable with who you are.It's nobody's biz what you like or dont like.If you like guys,then explore that.And you are certainly not too young...That is a crock in my book because I was out there at 13.And I found exactly what I liked.You should do the same and have our support as you do so.I'm with you Bro,no matter what you choose.And trust me when I tell you that whatever you decide,it will be just fine...
Hugs!
2007-11-12 09:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by Rick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd answer this the same way I'd answer it if you posted it as a straight guy. .. ..14 is too young to be worried about sex, period! Regardless of your sexuality, don't get caught up in the feeling that you have to become active at such a young age. As you progress through puberty, your feelings will likely become stronger and you'll know for sure--be patient.
2007-11-12 09:14:09 · answer #6 · answered by pocket68rocket 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hi, I'm going through almost exactly what your going through. the thing is don't come on to him to strong. cause I've already been with a boy but not anymore (issues) just take slow steps try to get him to sit with u more! (not for sure)
2007-11-12 09:38:52 · answer #7 · answered by mr.cool 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just wait till you're ready! I'm 22 and I'm still afraight to admit it to the people around me...And I was in kinder garden when I first had feelings for my teacher! I just want to wait till I find my special someone....
Hey, were still young! Why rush telling anybody?
Good luck!
2007-11-12 09:16:19 · answer #8 · answered by ororo munroe 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
start from your heart then go from there, if you start from your heart you can not go wrong, God is whit you no matter what. and loves you no matter if you are gay or str8.
2007-11-12 09:27:10 · answer #9 · answered by Richie for da ben dan 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋