This is something you should have considered before signing the divorce papers, it is far too late now.
You have to move on.
2007-11-12 10:32:42
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answered by Very happily married. 7
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What did you do to "mess up". I am married right now and my wife has "messed up" by thinking that somehow it's better for us to not be married anymore so she can still have the liberties of a single person and carry on the side relationship that she got involved in to ruin this whole thing. From my perspective, she will later wish she never rushed into divorce because she still loves me, but I won't take her back. I am moving on as did your ex-husband because love that is taken for granted leaves at least one person in the relationship always wary of when the next time you will decide you don't want to be with them again. It's better for people like me and your ex to find somebody who does truly care and doesn't think we are some kind of toy you can put on the shelf and come back to whenever you are ready.
2007-11-12 09:28:53
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answered by Cillosis 2
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Let him go, you had your chance and screwed up, now he has clearly started fresh with this new girl and has a baby on the way. You guys will always love each other, as I am assuming you have his first child and that relationship will have to be maintained for that reason alone. His child with you is the reason you still have contact, for that and no other reason - so let it be. You are on your own, so go find someone that is unattached and start over or go find the guy you messed up with if he's available. Obviously things weren't right for you with this guy in the first place or you wouldn't have screwed up in the second, so don't go trying to fix it in the third when your ex is with someone only and has a baby coming.
Way too much baby momma drama for my blood.
2007-11-12 08:37:42
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answered by Anonymous
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Too bad you messed up with what was supposed to be a very good relationship. He already has a new girl; moreso their second baby. And you cannot be together because of this. Well,it only means he couldn't give up the other girl, whom he may love more. Forget about him. Go find someone who will love you as much as you could love him.
2007-11-12 12:32:32
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answered by Anonymous
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Do NOT mess with someone else's life. You are no longer with him and that 2nd child deserves to have a Father and a Mother. You need to do the right thing, not what you feel you want to do...but the right thing; which is to move on with your life and do NOT jeopardize this baby's chance of having a normal loving home with two parents. Regardless of the regret you feel, your time has passed.
2007-11-12 08:36:32
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answered by Sweet as 3.141 2
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He's told you already that you can never be together. You need to walk away from him. Seems like he's made a decision already. Talking to you everyday and telling you that he still loves you is not making things easier on you. You need to go out there and start dating others. Hopefully you've learned from your mistake. Don't forget why you divorced in the first place.
2007-11-12 08:33:19
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answered by BluePassion 4
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Girl if he is having a baby with someone else you need to stop talking to him and get on with your life. If he really loved you he would not have started a relationship with someone else no matter what you did to mess up,
Get on with your life and find someone free to love and who will love you back and don't mess up next time.
Good Luck
2007-11-12 08:37:36
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answered by mn lady 6
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straighten up your life and priorities and venture out!
ppl who get tangled up in triangles and ex's are ppl who are stuck in one place.
maybe try getting over it and trying something new or finding a new location to go man hunting. (and find one that wouldnt tell you he loves you if he's with another woman if the situation would ever arise)
living in drama isnt the only way to live an entertaining life.
2007-11-12 08:43:44
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answered by throughthebackyards 5
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Move on hon. He's stringing you along for his ego. If you move on and become interested in other areas and with other people... he will find you more interesting. Not to say you will get back together, but he will definintely find you more interesting. And you need to build you a new life... just as he has.
2007-11-12 08:34:26
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answered by Teresa 5
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Stop talking with him. It's over.
BTW, be glad he's gone. His girlfriend is having his 2nd child. He's juvenile and will never ever grow up.
Just think, his girlfriend believes he loves her too!
2007-11-12 08:37:56
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answered by baileybc 2
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