Why do men want to share a woman? Especially my boyfriend? What is he and his mates getting out of having sex with me in front of each other?
When I ask them they say they really like me but then I think they dont listen to anything I say i.e using condoms! Also we dont use condoms so it is messy if you know what I mean! How can guys be ok with this from other guys?
Why does it not upset my b'friend to see men have sex with me? Why does he get off on it???
2007-11-12 07:37:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
sweety, you really really have to get out of this relationship for your own sake!!!!!!!! p l e a s e!!! he sounds like a dirt bag YOU DONT NEED THIS! find a friend you can go stay with JUST GET OUT!! hes screwing with your head!!!! hes going to mess you up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
run away and dont go back!
find a nice sweet caring guy ok
you dont need this jerk!!
YOU CAN DO SO MUCH BETTER!!!!!
please leave him
and OMG you forgot to mention your pregnant!!!!!!!!!!!
DONT BRING THE BABY UP WITH ANY OF THEM
GET OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!
SAVE YOURSELF FROM THIS TYPE OF LIFE!!!!!!!!
YOU ARE SO MUCH BETTER THAN THAT.
BRING THE BABY UP ON YOUR OWN it will have a much happier life!
please email me if you want to talk!!!
im 22 so we are almost the same age.
i really want to help you out!!!!
2007-11-12 07:59:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guys like it like that.
Have you ever watched guy's pornography?
It can be a badge of honour to have a girl who is desired by other guys.
It _IS_ considered unusual or even deviant to GIVE the girl to the other guys.
However, in some circles it can be seen as a form of control - domination, submission.
Interesting stuff.
But I agree with the concerns voiced by the other people. In many cases this can be unhealthy for relationships. If you are feeling degraded in a way that you do not want to be, by all means you should get out of there quick as you can.
2007-11-13 07:28:51 · answer #2 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should take into consideration what you feel and the fact you are uncomfortable with such a situation, as I think most people including myself would be, should make him think and stop.
Also sex with multiple partners especially without the use of a condom is risky from the point of STDs especially if they are all doing this with all their girl friends too (and if not then you should consider this).
As for what your boyfriend gets from this I can only guess but if it makes you feel uncomfortable or bad then do not allow it to continue.
2007-11-12 15:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by Erebus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My question is what is WRONG with YOU? how can you do that... don't you feel disgusting after that? Honey you are not the town's bike.that the whole town can ride. What is wrong with you, how can you do that to yourself? First your boyfriend is sick then his friends are sick and you are sick for letting them do that. Please just dump that guy and seek counseling. You are not in a healthy mind state right now... The whole situation is disgusting. How many men are you having sex with? Please just stop and seriously seek counseling.. And get an std test too... Honey you ARE worth more than that..
2007-11-12 16:00:49 · answer #4 · answered by 2legit2quit 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because he's a loser and probably likes "Accidentally" rubbing up against the guys. I would not share you with other guys, maybe other girls. I don't want to see another naked guy next to me. Maybe that's what he gets off on.
2007-11-12 15:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stop letting yourself be passed around between those guys. Why are you so disrespectful to yourself? You need to find you a new boyfriend. One who respects you!
2007-11-12 15:41:52 · answer #6 · answered by Brad M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't respect or admire you. It's a bad relationship and you need to get out. Find someone who will listen to you!
2007-11-12 15:43:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is a form of control. Get some self esteem ASAP.
2007-11-12 16:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by lhallums82 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you poor girl... he doesn't love you. you need to get away from him right this second. What you are doing is pardon my brutality.,... acting like a whore... you need some self esteem and you need to not do that anymore...
2007-11-12 15:42:53 · answer #9 · answered by rob c 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well that is weird. i personally wouldnt want to share. but to your boyfriend.. it is just live porn for him. a bit weird though to share fluids though
2007-11-12 15:42:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋