how do u get over loosing your ture love?

Question

i ned all the help i can get

me and my true lovwe have parted cos she thinks im a player
but she was my onley true love of my life now i need top move on and heel with out looking back i have to walk out the door that puit me in here life and walk out the door with out looking back its no way goon be easy

me and my true love have parted cos she thinks im a player
but she was my onley true love of my life now i need top move on and heel with out looking back i have to walk out the door that puit me in here life and walk out the door with out looking back its no way goon be easy

Answer 1

if it's really your true love u never get over it. There will always be a place in your heart for that love no matter what. U can find somebody else and attempt to move on, but that true love will always and forever be in your heart until the day u die. I never got over mine and we've been broken up for over 2 years, and I think about him every night before I go to sleep. It hurts and time hasn't done anything for me but make it worse it seems like. I still live my life and do things that make me happy but I know that I won't be completely happy until I have him back in my life again. It helps to spend time with friends and other loved ones. Try writing. Writing is a good way to express your feelings and to better understand what you're going through. Good luck, keep your head up, and always remember that God loves you!

Answer 2

Firstly one needs to acknowledge the loss. (some folk cant acknowledge and go into denial and kinda block off their feelings.)
Sometimes writing a letter with your feelings of loss, rejection and or abandonment to the person can help. This letter though is not for posting. This method can help allieviate some of the pain.
You know that when you loose your true love its like a death. So you actually need to go through the grieving process.

For many people who are grieving a loss, the first impulse is to deny the loss. Grieving denial can range from downplaying the loss, as if it's not important, to having the delusion that the person or pet is still alive.
It's often easier for people who are greiving to have an intellectual understanding of the death (the person or pet is physically gone) than an emotional understanding (the loved one is not coming back). So the first task for the grieving person is accepting that the loved one is really gone.

The pain of grieving can be both emotional and physical, and unfortunately there's no way to avoid it. Denying the pain of grieving can lead to physical symptoms and can also prolong the grieving process.

Some people try to avoid grieving pain by being busy or traveling; others minimize their loss by idealizing the loved one or refusing to allow negative thoughts about the loved one enter their minds. Some grieving people use drugs or alcohol to deaden the pain.

Feeling the pain of grieving is difficult, but it's an important step toward healing

Below is the link that will help you to deal with this loss. You need to be aware of your anger too and possible feelings of rage!

Answer 3

You don't - you just work through the loss until it hurts less then you start again. Every day you look at your good points and try to feel as happy as you can then after a while you will be happier. When you are really i a place where you can open up again there will be an opportunity for new love. Never believe you can only have one "true love" but accept you can only enjoy one at a time.

Answer 4

if True love? Does it exist? to imperfect human beings like us all?

You might feel as it is true love... because you yourself might not know what true love is. You feel extremely lonely, perhaps, but that is only because you are empty inside. Try to feel your life with other things, get a education, do some volunteer work, hang out with your friends, see your family... and you will feel your life with more positive thoughts and then may be, you will know more about love.
Don't sit around and ruminate about your lost love. The more you sit around and think about it, the worst it will get, the more you will cry. Thoughts come and thoughts go. Just stop thinking about it when it comes, it will go away before you know it. When the thought of regrets come to visit, just get up and do something else. Soon you will get over it.

Hope you will feel better soon.

Answer 5

Hard to say. I thought I was over it after 4 years. I saw her again nearly 20 years later, and the pain of losing her had totally returned.

Unless one is absolutely sure that that the other is "the one" and that a relationship is a sure thing for the future, it may be better to refrain. Jack Daniels and Glenlivit have been a good support team for me!

Answer 6

only time can heal this. trust me i was with my first everything for 4 years and i left him due to the fact i relized he treated me badly. i loved him more then anything. its been almost 2 years since i left him, since then i have a new love and had a baby 2 months ago. and not a day goes by that i dont think about my ex i still love him. another thing that helped is i cried everyday. it was best to get all your pain out in tears. good luck and im srry.

Answer 7

While you are "in" love, you will feel that he or she is your true love.. but the world is so big so there is always someone else who you may end up loving even more so don't dwell on a broken heart for too long. I've seen people unable to let go and it just drags them down for years. Think positively, and believe in yourself that there is always someone out there who is better and you just need to find him/her.

Answer 8

is wasn't meant to be! So how i would look at it, you haven't found your true love, as true love never dies's, so move on. Treat it as an experience and get on with your life.
I am not been horrid or hart less it's just the truth X

Answer 9

It depends on your personal situation. Try counseling, talking to friends, if you can get the person back, try to, etc.

It really depends, if it is in fact your true love, and it was meant to be, then it will happen, some way or another. :]

^othfashionlover^

Answer 10

Only time will help you. It will also help, if you can start to hate that person. That is how i got over my cheating ex-girlfriend.There is a fine line between love and hate.You need to cross that line, and you will feel much better.