They've been dating for a month..i have one class with him, and in that class he's been calling me anorexic, and other really insulting names! i've held it against my friend. am i doing the right thing or should i talk to her about it?
2007-11-12 06:28:00 · 7 answers · asked by hoplessly_maia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He might be jealous of the fact that you are closer to your friend than he is, so he treats you like that. Talk to your friend about it, but also let him know that it's not cool, he has no right to treat you that way and you are under no obligation to put up with it. The secret to getting through s--t like this is to try and understand the reasons why people might be doing bad things. Then you can correctly decide what to do. All iot takes is a liottle compassion - put yourself in the other person's shoes and then you can see where they're coming from and going to more clearly, without the fog of your own negative emotions to mess you up.
2007-11-12 06:47:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should take it out on your friend. After all, it's not her fault that her bf is acting like a jerk. That's his problem.
First, before talking to your friend, I suggest you confront her bf and ask him why he's acting like that. What does he have against you? Sounds like there's more to the story. Let him know that he's hurt your feelings and you can't take it.
If he doesn't respond and continues acting rude to you, talk to your friend about it. She's going to be upset, but she needs to know the truth. Hopefully she'll realize how mean he is, dump him, and you two can still be good friends.
Good luck! :) Hope you can work things out.
2007-11-12 06:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by Smileyy :D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's probably jealous of your friendship with her and wants her all to his self.
It's not fair or nice that he's hurting your feelings and your friend should do something about it to stop it. So, tell her what's going on.
2007-11-12 06:34:24 · answer #3 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'v had the same problem and i would say you should tell your friend that you dont want to hang around her if she is going to be with him or if she (your friend) can tell the jerk to lay off on the ''jokes'' on you! hope thing turn out lol!!!!!!!!!!! :-}
2007-11-12 06:36:58 · answer #4 · answered by Bree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him what his problem is. you never did anything to him, did you? if you did, even if it was a long time ago, just apologize and tell him to move on
2007-11-12 06:34:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. If she really is your friend, she would take your side.
2007-11-12 06:37:16 · answer #6 · answered by Mango b. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her
2007-11-12 06:42:36 · answer #7 · answered by shar main lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋