What can I do to make my wife KNOW that I want her. In her mind, I should want sex everyday, that's how she thinks guys think/act. So if I don't want sex that day (even if we've made love the past four days), then she thinks it's saying I don't want her. FAR from it, she is everything that I've looked for in a woman and more. I'm 46 and she's 41 with the body of a 25 year old.
2007-11-12 05:27:36 · 6 answers · asked by Motivated 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like she is having a hard time valuing herself without sex...which is usually a self-esteem problem. She may feel like she's not satisfying you in other ways and that she has to satisfy you sexually instead. Just try telling her how happy she makes you, that you are grateful for her (body and mind), and that she shouldn't worry about you going anywhere if you go one night without sex. Go out of your way to sexually satisfy her with no finish for you, nothing shows desire better than a guy catering to a womans needs with no expectation about his needs...not often but it might be a good idea. She should know then that you want her 100%.
2007-11-12 05:42:36 · answer #1 · answered by laura1977 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the girl above me - the little things count. Send her a text message in the middle of the day just saying that you are thinking of her. For example, my man will send me a message that states "Baby, Have I told you how much I love you yet today?" I will respond "no". He will then write a sweet or funny message back - "i love you more than all the stars in the night sky". It will make her day more than you know. Or if you are standing next to or behind her but she is occupied (I was in line somewhere and he was sitting on a bench behind me) - he texted something like "baby, i love your body i cannot stop looking at you". Or leave a note in her car attached to the steering wheel that syas i love you. My man and I have sex everyday - but those little things are what makes someone feel prized and loved. She will know that you are thinking of her when you are not there, etc.
2007-11-12 14:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by diana.meme 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WORDS ARE IMPORTANT! Lol. Write that on a sticky note and put it on your bathroom mirror so you see it every day. Tell her how beautiful she is. Sometimes you need to just say what you think. (I know a lot of guys have a hard time doing that.) Women are usually more likely to remember words than to remember you grabbing her butt while she was making dinner. Just tell her how much you want her and why.
2007-11-12 13:44:10 · answer #3 · answered by ivyheatherclover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Sweetie, that stereotype about guys being sex machines is just a stereotype. We don't want always want it everyday, really! Sometimes, we'd rather be doing other things like adoring our beautiful wives. And today, I'd rather sit back and reflect on how lucky I am to have such a wonderful person in my life."
Score :)
2007-11-12 13:37:57 · answer #4 · answered by LimboChamp 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Heck, I wish I were married to her!
My wife is fine with once a month! Once a day would be a dream come true!
2007-11-12 13:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One word... jewelry!
2007-11-12 13:31:37 · answer #6 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋