see, I am a bit of a loner, although I hate being alone. But I have reasons not to trust others. why is it that "loners" are looked down on?
2007-11-12 05:19:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Never-the two are on opposite ends of the spectrum. A loner is a person alone by choice. A looser is alone because no one can stand to be around them. If a loner chooses to be around someone people flock to their presence because they are usually reflective, intelligent, thoughtful, insightful people with strong emotions. Myself alone because I am protecting those emotions from further harm. It sounds like you also. But when we choose to allow someone to enter our world, we give freely and openly. That my dear is NOT a loser.
2007-11-12 05:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by Shelley C 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am a loner as well, but I am definitely NOT a loser. Having lots of friends is a good thing, but some people just don't trust others or don't especially like socializing. I have a friend that always wants me to go to parties with her and I have no interest in going. But that does not make me a loser. Maybe you should get out there and give people another chance. There ARE some good people out there.
2007-11-12 05:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by PURR GIRL TORI 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No they are different things. Although i feel like a loser for being a loner most of the time.
2007-11-12 06:25:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
loners need not the company of another soul to enjoy themselves or to have happyness. but when the time for support comes, the are usually alone. some may stand strong and beat down the 'cool' people. but most loners lack the ability to stand for themselves with no friends or support.
my bro's a loner. people diss him.
im a loner. i break noses.
see what i mean?
and some people ('cool') cannot live without putting someone down. and who better than the ones with no support. would you fight a guy who had 10 friends to back him up? or a guy with no one?
just common sense. target the loner.
cheers. you need friends only if you want them. not because others say you should have them.
Shame
2007-11-12 05:29:11 · answer #4 · answered by Rastafarianhobo 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You can be a loner and be very successful without the headache of dealing with others. You can be a loser and have a bunch of loser buddies and lose out together. So, I don't think loner=loser.
2007-11-12 05:28:26 · answer #5 · answered by N_Quizitive_1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loners aren't losers, never was, loners
second, sometimes people talk just to waste the airspace.
2007-11-12 05:55:55 · answer #6 · answered by steven25t 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that it's mostly losers that are looked down on. the difference is losers want friends but no one likes them and loners don't like people so they chose not to be with them
2007-11-12 05:23:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Loners aren't losers. They are just folks who can amuse themselves without the need for others around.
Most are very empathic also and will always sense the energy behind the emotions of others they are around. You tend to keep to yourself if you are capable of that.
2007-11-12 05:22:53 · answer #8 · answered by American Spirit 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
no, I like loners,
I'm attracted to loners [particularly only men though]
because they have this mystery in them and
quiet sexual appeal ; ]
I'm already funny and bold as it is, I don't want a special someone
that can make me laugh, I need someone that
I can make laugh and bright up ♥
and the characteristics of your typical loner
can only do so
2007-11-12 05:35:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
losers & loners don't really relate, it's losers that have the real problem if u ask me, CHEER UP!
2007-11-12 05:46:08 · answer #10 · answered by .*. 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋