Do you ridicule your wife? Are you embarrassed of your wife? or do you support her during this most difficult time? Answer honestly please.
2007-11-12 03:50:31 · 15 answers · asked by Lue R 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I love my wife. Her weight doesn't matter to me. If she wants to lose weight I will help her in any way possible but she was always there for me as I will be for her. Any man who ridicules his beloved because of her weight is very mean. Work with your wife and help her. But love her for who she is.
2007-11-12 04:02:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, I know every woman who reads this is going to hate me.
I supported her. I loved her in spite of her obesity. I never said a thing. Never. That was a mistake. Being overweight is a sign of mental instability. I should have dumped her.
Anorexia is crazy. Being 5'3" and 200 pounds is crazy.
Do you know what the secret is to losing weight? Stop stuffing your face. Period. End of discussion. Anyone who says otherwise is either trying to sell you a diet or is someone who is afraid that you'll lose weight, get a boyfriend and leave their fat, cake-eating butt.
Exercise isn't as important as disciplining yourself with regard to eating. You can't exercise with a bloated gut, plus you don't have the energy to do anything if your body is always digesting food.
Oh, and if diet pop made a difference, you girls would have lost the weight already.
Quit lying to yourselves. I am thin. I am also hungry all the time. That is the price of having clothes that fit. Deal with it. Life ain't fair. You can't be a glutton without consequences.
2007-11-12 04:31:22 · answer #2 · answered by The J Man 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I won't lie, it does bother me sometimes. I don't say anything
about it to her because she already knows and doesn't need
me reminding her.
I will mention that the latest diet pill she just bought wont work.
Just like the 30 or so other pills that she has tried.
If there was a magic weight loss drug on the market, the billion dollar drug companies would have it and it would cost a fortune.
The pills that claimed to have worked all have a sensible diet
and exercise program involved.
I think it's a crime that so many people have fallen prey to
these pill weight loss scams.
2007-11-12 04:09:00 · answer #3 · answered by welder guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife is overweight. I'm not embarrassed because she's beautiful to me. Inside and out. My woman is a trooper and loves me more than anything. (except God) Yeah she could stand to lose a few pounds and there's no problem with me telling her that as long as I tell her with love. Not putting her down either. I could be in better shape as well so I may suggest we work out together or let's create fitness goals together.
I see more in shape women everyday and it's nice to look at but that's just it. Some people are in shape and some aren't. If you're unhealthy than it's a problem and who better than your loved one to tell you.
Some people are overweight and just let themselves go. Not even caring how they look being a sloppy pig. That may be embarrassing and if you aren't interested in fixing that you may get ridiculed.
2007-11-12 03:56:46 · answer #4 · answered by ZX3R 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not tease her or ridicule her.She probably feels bad enough as it is.Ask her how she feels about it and if there is anything you can do to help her because being over weight is unhealthy and leads to a shorter life and you don`t want to loose her that way.Most of all,let her know that you love her either way and she is still beautiful to you but you are worried about her health.Maybe you can both work out together.
2007-11-12 04:00:30 · answer #5 · answered by DSimonds 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
after our 2nd kid she put on 30 lbs.. I gave 6 months and still nothing... so i told her. remember we said if either one of us gets fat we would send us to a FAT FARM? she said yeah.... so we looked into it and she ended up at jenny Craig.... took about 3 to 4 months but she lost the 30lbs.. and looks hot..
We are both glad she did it, even got her mom to loose 25 lbs... now everyone is happy and we always go out... last saturday it was to the movies.... ahhhh
2007-11-12 04:23:53 · answer #6 · answered by Latin G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was only about 40 lbs overweight--not huge by any means. My ex responded by ridiculing me, calling me nasty names (like thunder thighs etc) and finally just had an affair with a cute little blonde 20 years his junior.
If you really love her, encourage her and stand by her. Don't hurt her feelings-be gentle and tactful.
2007-11-12 03:54:47 · answer #7 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I had that problem awhile back. I just supported her efforts to take off the weight and never ridiculed her. She did take off the weight when she had the right amount of desire and plan to take it off.
2007-11-12 03:55:53 · answer #8 · answered by Johnny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy, but my husband tells me how beautiful I am, tells me how proud of me he is.... and if I say I'm fat he's the first to remind me I gave birth to 5 children....lol.
Either way we are both working together to get in better shape. Eating better, working out together, taking walks, etc. He's very supportive and very loving.
2007-11-12 03:55:38 · answer #9 · answered by az_mommma 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would go to the gym with her. Cook healthier for her. Try to engage her in physical activity. Never ridicule and mock.
2007-11-12 03:57:30 · answer #10 · answered by Islander 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋