i have all the fealings for the girls but thoughts of sex or anything with them dosnt turn me on but thoughts of gay sex turns me on but i dont have fealings fo men.
am i gay or bi or none
2007-11-12 03:33:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Why choose until you are ready? Don't do anything until you are sure that is what you want.
In my opinion, it sounds like you may be Gay. If the idea of gay sex turns you on, then there is no doubt you are attracted to men. If you really are not attracted to women, do yourself and them a huge favor and back off. You are in the wrong territory and that can be a very hurtful and destructive thing for both of you.
I was married to a man once who cheated on me with other women. He married 2 more women after me and is now gay. It irks me that he could have saved us all a lot of grief if he had just been honest with me (us) and admitted the feelings he had for men in the first place.
If you date women, be honest and open about your feelings for them and your desire for men. That way, you will always have a good friend that you can trust to care for you for who you are.
Best Regards,
Linda Lee ;)
2007-11-12 03:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by Linda Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that when you say 'feelings' that you mean you haven't been involved romantically with a guy yet. It's normal to feel sexually aroused by others, but not close to those who you haven't gotten to know on another level.
Sexuality is fluid and there is no cut-off point - many people are bi, others prefer just 1 sex, whether gay or straight. Like others, I don't like labels, and my guess is that over time things will become clearer to you. Some people are sexually interested in others of the same sex, but don't want emotional involvement - this works in the reverse too.
So, just go out and get to know others, and learn through experience and your interest in them. And don't mislead anyone, as others have pointed out, as this has repurcussions for the both of you.
Good luck! Rob
2007-11-12 07:19:46 · answer #2 · answered by Rob E 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think you only have feelings for girls because that's how you think you should feel and that's what society has taught you?
Have you ever tried getting to know a gay or bi guy?
You may be bi, but from the sounds of it your more attracted to guys.
I think you should try getting to know some people that are gay, if you don't already that is.
2007-11-12 03:53:24 · answer #3 · answered by moss m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry...i dont like labels. I think that you can call yourself whatever you likes. dont ever let anyone else label you, homo gay bi straight...pffffft ignore it all. whatever you claims as your own is yours. i think sexuality is fluid and mutable and you can describe yourself as best you know how. maybe you choses gay now, maybe later bi, maybe just take queer all together...
its your choice not anyone elses...and no one is ever formed in stone...it may change with time and experience
2007-11-12 03:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by A-Ho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say u are afraid to come out of the closet. I think u are bi.
2007-11-12 03:39:29 · answer #5 · answered by Dragonflygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're probrobly bisexual but only you truly know. You should try experimenting [SAFELY] a bit and see what you like.
2007-11-12 03:48:13 · answer #6 · answered by summerlove203 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you're confused. Try them both out and see how you feel afterward.
2007-11-12 03:55:28 · answer #7 · answered by Tripod T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing gay, but its just a guess.
2007-11-12 04:28:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably bi right now
2007-11-12 04:04:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
darling your prolly bisexual
2007-11-12 03:41:27 · answer #10 · answered by i love Amanda kendall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋