They think I'm humping them when I'm really attacking them. Someone says my czech herritage is gay because of its language. I'm very low tempered and very sensetive. Should I transfer to another school or get homeschooled? I relly like the teachers I have. Help!!!!!
2007-11-12 02:59:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well you could stop attacking them
no offence but the name Han Solo sounds kinda gay.
if i was you i'd start to butch up, go to the gym, get pumped up and sort out your style then get a girl friend and prove to them that you are not gay.
dont be pushed out of school just man up
2007-11-12 03:04:00 · answer #1 · answered by Smitty2007 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Everything about the Czech Republic impressed me as "gay friendly." But I didn't think the Czech themselves nor their language to be any more gay than any other nation. I don't know what you mean by attacking the guys at school. Do you like to wrestle or play fight. That can be perceived as gay. I live in America where almost any physical contact is interpreted as sexual in nature. (We're really a very sick people!) You are probably violating the "closeness" rule of your culture in some way. If you aren't gay and you don't wish to be seen that way, what about getting a girlfriend. My impression of Czech guys was so favoable I can't imagine you having any difficulty. Unless of course you are gay. Would that be such a problem?
2007-11-12 03:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will really know more about why they think that you may be gay/bi, more so than just us YAnswers members. These guys will know more but, I guess, they're not available for intelligent discussion.
Many people are still ignorant about gays/bi's and don't have much of a clue about us. You mention that you're sensitive, and it may be something around this that they are using in an ill-informed way. Straight guys can be as sensitive as gay men, of course.
You've given some information here, and what has been said by them potentially borders on racism. Ok, your social space may be different to the average American, and it could be worth backing off, from the physical attacks: changing tactics here could be fruitful.
I'd speak to teachers about this harrassment/bullying, if these idiots don't back off, when you tell them to.
Don't feel under pressure to prove that you like girls, just to make a point to them. Your sexuality and dating is your own business and nothing to do with a bunch of low-life. Aim to seek out people who are good for you, and spend as much time as you can with them, inside and outside of school.
Good luck! Rob
2007-11-12 07:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by Rob E 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on,you are not going to transfer because some stupid people give you a hard time.I know it can be tough sometimes(I've been through this,because i was really sensitive,not afraid to express my feelings,people in my school said i was gay ,they even made up stories of me hooking up with other guys).But you know what I didn't pay much attention to them and they got tired and stopped.SHow them that he doesn't affect you what they say and they will leave you alone.They still believe I'm gay(which is fine by me) but I'm happier than them because I live my life the way I want.And who said it was a bad thing to be gay anyway
2007-11-12 04:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haha you're funny
Don't do anything crazy like switch school over something like this
and the czech thing... doesnt make any sense at all... o_O
If you ARE gay though, remember theres absolutly nothing wrong about that. but i dont suppose youre trying to decide that right now
dont hang out with people that make fun of you. stand up for yourself, and as someone said, "man up" =P don't let yourself be pushed around
2007-11-12 03:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by FireRed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you just ignore them?
Pal around with your friends and try not to get caught alone. If they see you with people who will defend you then they will eventually give up and lose interest. The fact that you are "attacking" them just gives them the satisfaction that they are getting a reaction.
2007-11-12 03:09:59 · answer #6 · answered by summerlove203 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"Czech heritage gay because of its language" what is that? i have never heard that before!!!
but i bet they think ur gay because they are...and are conscious, so they want some sort of company...ignore them
2007-11-12 03:04:51 · answer #7 · answered by Em09 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get yourself a girl friend. That will shut them up.
What's this about "attacking" them?
Stop doing that!
2007-11-12 03:20:07 · answer #8 · answered by StretfordEnder 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its really not that big of a deal. you don't need to change schools. if your not gay, tell them that, and then drop it. if you act like its a big deal, they will either assume your lying or like your reaction and continue to tease you.
2007-11-12 03:04:48 · answer #9 · answered by CC 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i don't think u are gay, only u can make that decision.
2007-11-12 04:08:19 · answer #10 · answered by Dragonflygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋