I feel lonely, knowing that i gave two lives up, that could have been young 4 yrs old and 2 yrs old. The father of both of them would have been happy if i had of kept them like he wanted me too.I wished that i could change what i did in the past. I miss them and their father.
For the first pregnancy I was 10 weeks along, for the second I was 5 weeks along.
2007-11-10 21:27:40 · 8 answers · asked by Tigers_Forever29 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
didnt you ask this question the other day? get some counselling to talk about it
2007-11-10 21:42:06 · answer #1 · answered by fng127 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-16 02:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for the insensitive replies you've gotten on this topic. A lot of people do feel they had not had their abortions due to being forced or coerced into having them.
I'm going to leave you a link to a support site in the source. I hope you visit it and find peace with your decisions soon.
2007-11-10 22:09:54 · answer #3 · answered by Eve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry.
I don't know the feeling myself, but I've had a few friends who felt like that. So it's perfectly normal, you're not alone.
I've even being told about a site called rachael's vineyard, rachel's, I dunno how it's spelt, but I've heard it helped one of them. I've never checked it out though before, might just go do that now lol...
p.s. Please ignore idiots like dazedandconfused and don't let get you down, those people are obviously quite dazed and confused, and most probably on drugs lol.
2007-11-10 21:32:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only person that can jugde you is God.At the time you made the decision it felt right for you so dont regret, you are DEFINATELY NOT ALONE.You just have to find someone to help you help yourself to heal,dont worry one day you will heal time will tell...
2007-11-11 01:26:03 · answer #5 · answered by obviousbeauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, at the time you decided not to keep your pregnancies you had strong reasons for doing so. I know you didn't do it on a whim. Years on, with hindsight, we might make different decisions. But trust yourself that you did what you had to do at the time.
2007-11-10 22:20:18 · answer #6 · answered by Janey 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why did you do it in the first place then? i guess you living with your sorrow and your mistake for killing them in the first place, is enough punishment for you. coz now you get to live the rest of your life like that, whereas they will never have a life because of you
2007-11-10 22:53:54 · answer #7 · answered by trace s 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its a bit late having regrets now
2007-11-10 22:47:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋