or just hope it falls into your lap?
2007-11-10 18:42:21 · 17 answers · asked by emily_jane2379 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I went looking and now I'm happily married, I've just read a few magazines recently where ppl have said, just wait and it willl fall into your lap. Personally I don't believe that would have happened for me- I decided to be pro active to get something I wanted, I just wondered how others felt.
2007-11-10 18:50:51 · update #1
usually it just smacks you on the head....
2007-11-10 18:49:26 · answer #1 · answered by . 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I go for both.
If your the non-seeking type like me, when it comes to you and it goes well how wonderful it would be.Like the concept predestined lovers. :) two of you are meant for each other and the thought of love finding its own way without you looking for it, is just wonderful. But now, we are driven to look for that someone coz' you dont know , that he might end up with the not-so right one or worst taken by another guy.
2007-11-11 02:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by Nna g 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're referring to romantic love, no. not for me. i don't hope, i don't look. i just live. that sounds like BS, but sometimes you can't expect things or push things. i just let things happen as they should, no matter how that may be. looking for love usually puts me in an impatient bind and it's worthless. but then again, sometimes i have to open my eyes to see love.
just let destiny take over.
i hope i helped you. signs are important. just live it'll all fall into place.
2007-11-11 02:48:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's somewhere in the middle. If you look to hard, you'll never find it. But it will never find you if you don't put yourself out there. A person has to be open without being to needy or desperate.
2007-11-11 03:01:07 · answer #4 · answered by ͏҉ ßõhrçmrïñsÿ★ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe you should go looking for romantic love. I think you should behave in a loving and caring way to people you meet (though it's not easy sometimes). That way you increase your chances of love finding you.
2007-11-11 02:52:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I do believen getting your name out there, making sure people know your available. The way I found it was walking into a friends dorm room, and there he was and I had to have him.
2007-11-11 02:50:49 · answer #6 · answered by Whole 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been looking for almost 10 years now. I'm done. It's gotta find me now. I just hope I see it when it does come....
2007-11-11 02:45:23 · answer #7 · answered by Jess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm, it usually finds you AFTER you look for it, lol.
My opinions is just let things happen. It can come at any moment of your life.
2007-11-11 03:00:09 · answer #8 · answered by Aki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that love comes along when you least expect it
2007-11-11 02:56:23 · answer #9 · answered by Baps . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am done looking for love, so if it don't fall into my lap i guess i am destine to die alone.
2007-11-11 02:47:14 · answer #10 · answered by Jezabel the annoyed cat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you go looking for it, you'll never find it.
Love comes when you least expect it.
2007-11-11 02:49:58 · answer #11 · answered by ♥L4tM♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋