What do you do when you have no more tears left to cry?

Question

But you still are in pain?

Answer 1

keep walking through it. It does get better. You are awake, writing these questions in an effort to connect with a human being because you feel abandoned and alone, and you are hurt and angry and in tears and don't know where to turn.

right so far?

when here are no more tears left, your body is telling you to take a deep shuddering cleansing breath, wash your face, take some aspirin, and try to get some sleep. It will not seem so desperate and alone. Tomorrow, go out and do something positive for someone else. And email me if you want.

LM

Answer 2

Wow I wish I had that problem I always find tears and ways to cry..........

You have to let the emotions out you will feel better and Good cry is good way to do this :)))

I sometimes play a sad song and it helps me cry I am so dramatic I really should have been an actress :)))

Change your mind frame do something to not think about the pain go for a walk a drive go shopping do something nice for you I know the pain will still be there but it will not be as severe if you do not focus on it as your main focus good luck and I wish you the best....

Answer 3

i feel drained and yet still wanting give it all out. the pain. tears? they're a part of every one. a manifestation of great emotion- whether pain or happiness.

“Perhaps our eyes need to be washed by our tears once in a while, so that we can see Life with a clearer view again.”

when there are no more tears, then it's time to feel not pain but relief. tears washes away the pain, and if not, then why cry?

“Two barrels of tears will not heal a bruise”

"Waste not fresh tears over old griefs."

i guess i'm just speaking from my own emotions. every one has a different view on tears and pain. but you must know that crying is the simplest way of easing the pain. second to time, crying can also alleviate pain, even a little. so for me, i am not ashamed to say that i cry every now and then, as often as i lie, not only in pain but also when i'm happy. crying is a neat way of washing away dirt inside me.

“Laughter through tears is my favorite emotion.”

“Let tears flow of their own accord: their flowing is not inconsistent with inward peace and harmony.”

"Let your tears come. Let them water your soul."

"Heavy hearts, like heavy clouds in the sky, are best relieved by the letting of a little water."

"To weep is to make less the depth of grief."

pain only intensifies when you don't let it go. the more you think of it, feel it and relive it, the more it engulfs you until it does not leave you.
cry. and then say goodbye. =) god bless.

Answer 4

It depends on whether the kids are with me and what has caused the pain & tears.

If it's life falling apart I'll scoop the kids into a big hug and then take them for a walk, maybe buy us a treat.

If it's my ex I'll have a shower and possibly try to sleep, because that sort of crying leaves me exhausted. If it's not possible to sleep (ie I have to be up and about for the kids) I'll try distracting myself through music, reading, the puter or doing something with the kids.

There are a number of things I do to try to distract my thoughts away from the pain.

If this is not a theorectical question I hope that you have someone to share your pain with, and I hope that it eases soon. take care.

Answer 5

Md Crone, I sense that you're losing your focus again. A Witch doesn't RE-act to things around him/her, a Witch acts to MAKE those changes that are necessary, themself. Often things do NOT go as we had planned and we get hurt. In spite of what others will tell you, Time does NOAT heal all wounds. Often our emotional injuries last a life time. It's NOT the hurt that is the important thing, it's HOW we learn from and deal with the hurt, that makes the difference. The difference between being a PRO-active Witch and a RE-active Mundane.Now go ahead and cry, mourn the changes that have occurred BUT, also set into motion your plans to learn, assimilate and reorganize your thinking to aviod that sort of trauma again.

If this is the sort of "pain" that you seem to go through often in your life then perhaps the problem is NOT with those who put you through it. Perhaps the problem is with YOU. What are YOU doing to attract ones who are most likely to hurt you? Are YOU the type to look at pretty packaging and ignore all the warnings on the labels? Fail to look at what's INSIDE the package BEFORE you decide to "buy"? In other words, have YOU become too lazy to do diligence and check out the WHOLE situation BEFORE you decide to offer yourself to it? If so, then THAT is why you are becoming hurt so often. It's Goddess's way of slapping you awake and getting you to pay more attention to what you are about to get yourself into.

AS for WHAT you've set your hopes on, have you over extended yourself or had unrealistic expectations out of what it is that you sought? Before you jump onto that horse again, you need to think about exactly what it is that you expect from the ride. Too often the younger horse MAY be pretty, may be fast, may be exciting. But the horse is young and doesn't have the stamina to hold up over the long run. Perhaps a horse that fills your needs but, may be a bit older, have more stamina for the long haul, may NOT be as pretty but still doesn't look like a total sway-back nag. Most importantly, HAS the stamina for the long haul, may not get you there as quickly or in an exciting fashion but nevr the less, gets the job done that you ACTUALY want to have accomplished. Perhaps THAT is what you TRULY need and NOT the showy one. We have discussed this before and yet you seem to have NOT understood OR have NOT followed the wisdom that YOU already posess. When you ignore that internal wisdom, you're setting yourself up to be hurt. Until you decide to listen to that "self-advice" you will continue to become hurt. Come on, Ms Crone, YOU are a Witch, you KNOW how to evaluate and anticipate the behaviors of others. YOu've READ everything you need to know, discussed it with your friends and other advisors. YOu already HAVE the TOOLS, You have the knowldege AND experience. You have EVERYTHING that it takes to do these things correctly and yet WHY do you choose to not utilize all those resources and DO it properly? Explore THAT and you will have the key to overcoming you current hurt. But not only THAT, you'll have the ability to AVOID that hurt again in the future. If you want to talk in depth about it, e-mail me.

BB,
Raji the Green Witch

Answer 6

But, my dear, tears were never meant to cure pain. They are at best a sign of our helplessness, an involuntary release to destress us for the time being. But pain? That's a different story. You obviously need to tackle pain at a different level.

Answer 7

i do no longer think of of he's being thoroughly person-friendly with you. Why would desire to it count form without delay, if it hadn't earlier? i think of of you have finished top, 2 years is an prolonged time for a familiar dating, and it does sound such as you like him very lots. If the sensation is mutual then (and this would sound cheesy) love would be valuable. diverse than that, get your self a facial, spend a at an identical time as on subject concerns you wouldnt have had time to do as quickly as you have been with him, have long bubble baths and image approximately what you like. i could additionally placed aside an hour on a regular basis to experience as crap as a risk, and then get on with the day. want you experience greater advantageous helpful and that this has helped. : )

Answer 8

I think at that point you would be dead from dehydration. ; ) It sounds like a line but Time heals all wounds. Bad things happen in our lives and it takes time to adjust to awful events. Just remember the good things about the person and if it isn't about someone you care about remember the lesson that you learned. Just dont make that lesson to shut down your emotions. Things will get better.

Answer 9

Be thankful that you can give your eyes a rest and concentrate on with dealing with the pain as quickly as possible.

Answer 10

I walk, and I usually walk on my way to church to pray for the pain to end soon. I linger in the church garden and watch as life takes it course in every living creatures there and walk back home again.