So I was friends w/ this girl, she kicked me to the curb once she got fed up w/ my terrible ways. I was depressed cuz this was my 1st breakup and it was all my fault. So I reached out to the girl's god mom to 1, get some spiritual guidance and 2, to get back in w/ my friend. So once I told the girls mom how awful I felt she told me how she wanted to meet and pray w/ me at the church sometime and gave me some guiding words. I told her I would love to partially cuz that was my official invitation back into my friends life. Me and this girls mom have just been talking online cuz I'm away at school at won't be able to meet w/ her until later this month. We've gotten pretty close and we even arranged to go see my fav. musical 2gether. But now I'm really over my friend and I really can move on w/o her so now I dont need her mom nemore. If u were me, would u kick the mom to the curb and tell her ur reasoning, just stop talkin to her or what?
2007-11-10 17:26:27 · 16 answers · asked by ms.l_thoms 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Sounds like you haven't changed at all! That's so manipulative and you need therapy.
2007-11-10 17:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by krazycatlady420 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Geez that's fairly callous.
She has spent time online with you; comforting you and everything but now that she's no use to you she's just an inconvenience or something.
In all that interaction; you're saying you never valued
her just for herself.
Since you don't "need" her friendship anymore and you clearly don't value it, I think you should leave and stop wasting
her time.
However, at least be kind enough to tell her something less hurtful like that being with her reminds you of your old girlfriend and, as grateful to her as you are, it's time for you to get busy elsewhere. There's no need to let on that you've been using her all of this time.
I hope it goes well for you both.
2007-11-10 17:36:30 · answer #2 · answered by Pandora 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank the girls mom for the help shes given you, and tell her your trying to get over the break up and wanna stop associating yourself with her family.
2007-11-10 17:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by Mervin McGee 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Man, are you fouled up. People are not here for your convenience, or to be kicked to the curb. Wake up, and learn some manners before you post your nonsense here.
2007-11-10 17:33:49 · answer #4 · answered by jms043 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ikess....honestly if this is a good woman, i'd keep her as a friend, you never know when she might be helpful one day. but if you really wanna break it off, tell her that seeing her brings up memories of your ex. and thank her for helping you get over her, but that you need to move on.
2007-11-10 17:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by Q 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, keep talking to her if you want to, or don't if you don't want to. U can be friends with her even without that girl. tell her you're not interested in that girl anymore, and that you have moved on, and see what she says.
2007-11-10 17:32:02 · answer #6 · answered by Change 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should still be friends with the mom. She will be hurt
because you used her.
2007-11-10 17:31:35 · answer #7 · answered by nancy d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not keep her friendship?! Even though you don't "need" ppl sometimes, you don't have to be a jerk and just use 'em & dump 'em!! That's terrible!
2007-11-10 17:31:22 · answer #8 · answered by adrift feline 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well do you not enjoy her mom at all? I would say don't do anything mean, just sort of drift apart.
2007-11-10 17:30:42 · answer #9 · answered by Tialiarhetta 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
slowly stop talking to her. dont message or call her. but if she calls you, answer it occassionally. but if she asks if you want to meet up, just say your busy. she will get the point eventually.
2007-11-10 17:30:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋