why do relationships end in pain or in pain?

Question

some relationships do end in friendship but the majority of people end their relations in tears, suicide, or even murder. what i say is blame that on society and stereotypes that make it possible for everyone to be burnt once or twice in their lifetime. yeah that is just apart of life but what about the lives portrayed on t.v. it sinks its way into society for example music videos, they portray gangsters and skanks as the best way to live. don't get me wrong all that is cool to me thats why im writing to you guys what if it was like church programmes and nuns on t.v 24hrs a day i bet we will be nuns and choir boys. where i am coming from is today's society is just waiting for people to jump at the next in thing right now its people getting others rite where it hurts and i no because i just come out of a relationship with someone where all i did was cheat,cheat,cheat and after breaking up i have been sitting here wondering why? I know why SOCIETY AND STEREOTYPES

Answer 1

my first relationship didn't end in pain for me, I had enough of his BS, btu it ended in pain(as in regret for doing me wrong) for him....

I know that it Hurts like hell to know you love someone and that they may not love you back or want you anymore. You feel helpless and lost. You plan a life with someone and next thing you know, it's gone.... My current bf was so torn up because of how his ex did him, he was scared of a relationship with me and constantly tried breaking it off, so I was put through hell at times... But when I was finally abotu to leave for good, he had an epiphany (after I played a certain cinderella song) that he wouldn't know what he had unitl it was gone....and he knew how much I meant to him, so here we are two and a half years later and planning on marriage ^_^

But doctor phil says that when a man and woman can end a relationship and not feel confused or upset, then they're ready to end it. otherwise they can work it out(if BOTH are willing)...

Goodluck!

Answer 2

Hi,
Where Expectations are, there is pain.

We expect others, what they are giving
We dont think what we are giving to others
We criticise what others do or say
We dont see what we do or say to others
We remember our rights, but
We are made to recall our responsibilties, duties
because of rights we get and
because of duties we have to give

other person is also thinking on the same lines, i.e. expectations on both end eventually none is giving... ends in pain

We monitor others rather we should monitor, criticise ourself.

Answer 3

look we all have our DEMONS to fight in this life. I'm painfull relationship right now, it ttearing me freaking apart, but I know deep inside of my SOUL, i'll go through that with my HEAD UP, and stronger.
so you will go through it, suicide is not option because your soul will stick in here between heaven and hell and you don't want to bring the pain to people you love and care most.

Keep your HEAD straight UP, life is ***** many times but that's what making US stronger