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Honestly now people.

2007-11-10 15:30:10 · 41 answers · asked by male.confused 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

41 answers

no.

2007-11-10 15:52:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No, vows don't guarantee anything. The bride and groom may be sincere about it when they give their vows during their wedding, but in time, that could change, depending on circumstances. The only way that your love can really last in marriage is if both people work together to keep that love alive. As for any guarantees... as they say, "There's only 2 guarantees in life... death and taxes.", or something like that. LOL

2007-11-10 15:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by randmthots 4 · 0 0

In a period where one changes a partner like a dog does, to mate. Its very difficult to put a vow to work for a marriage. You will have to understand that every aspect of the life commands ethics and self commitment to work wonders for the relations or in day to day's life. . Old saying is you reap the crop that you so desire. Vows with self commitment to live up to the expectation and cherish every moment is a drive that puts grievances behind and brings out the best person within to love your partner unconditionally. People do differ, but having voiced their opinion do stand to the person they love. However, vows which are intended to get a woman to bed for a while without understanding her or relationship is a plain promise which has no value and will end when the passion within their sex ends. So my dear friend vow has great value then its face value.

2007-11-10 16:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

No, no guarantees in life. You can only take it one day at a time. Get up, do the best you can, go to bed, get up the next day and do it all over again. The vows are there to let each other know you what you "intent" to do. So the both of you have a very clear understanding of what is expected of each other. So no one can come back and say "I never said we are exclusive, I never said I won't see other people..." or something stupid like that.

2007-11-10 15:37:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

What does one have to do with the other except in books, movies and TV?

Marriage contracts 2 people to work through life as one (think of it like a Board of Directors). Vows are the business agreement that dictates the rules of that contract.

Making sure that love LASTS requires the same actions and considerations that made love GROW so that you'd want to get married.

2007-11-10 15:43:04 · answer #5 · answered by clearentertainermanagement 4 · 0 0

There are no guarantees in life or marriage. You have to work at keeping the love alive. Your vows are promises that you make to each other, but it takes the hard work and dedication of each of you to keep those promises. After 12 years of marriage my vows were broken because we both didn't try hard enough.

2007-11-10 15:39:45 · answer #6 · answered by KatieB 2 · 0 0

Nothing lasts in the world and so are vows. Now a days they are a plain ticket to reach a destination whether a woman or a post or agreement or a tender in a business. they are passport to move. However, a good intention with self commitment base on your pure love for the person ensures a vow in realization.

2007-11-10 16:15:37 · answer #7 · answered by khulus 2 · 1 0

The marriage vows do not guarantee that love will last forever. Those vows are promises that are meant to be broken.

2007-11-10 15:40:59 · answer #8 · answered by Belen 5 · 0 0

You are right. Vows mean diddly now...Been married 7 years but sadly seems to be getting bad. But I am a traditionalist and I stick to my vows and do whatever to work it out. The hard part is convincing the other party the same. You have to try at marriage. Its not easy thats why vows should be important. Keep hope alive!!!

2007-11-10 15:39:12 · answer #9 · answered by Joe C 1 · 0 0

Apparently you haven't seen the recent divorce rates hon. I have taken those vows very seriously. I meant them. I was raised that your word was as good as you are. So come hell or high water, it's till death do we part for me, and lucky for us, we haven't wanted to kill each other.

Then there are those that live in the moment, make rash decisions and plan their vows around the marriage ceremony, rather than the actual marriage. I'm not quite sure they mean what they are saying. And I've been to a few of those weddings where you can predict the length of their marriage based on how they say those vows.

2007-11-10 15:51:25 · answer #10 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 1 1

vows are no guarantee of anything, let alone that love will last. it takes commitment to work as a team for the rest of your married lives. and with that love, respect, and honor will continue to be within the marriage. just don't disillusion yourself with the feeling high with love as being something that lasts because some words and rings were exchanged. that whole in love feeling fades out, but hopefully what replaces it is even more powerful.

2007-11-10 15:40:11 · answer #11 · answered by celticbuddha 7 · 0 0

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