2007-11-10 13:08:54 · 12 answers · asked by reeder3878 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
WOW well if she is then she is nothing u can do about it. It will be hard because u do have a 3 year old. Dont know how u feel i know if my man came to me and i had a son with him and he told me he was gay i would think something is wrong with me to make him turn gay. But i know that is not the case. If u really love her ask her if she knows this forsure or is it something she just likes to do. Go see someone about this talk it out. GOOD LUCK
2007-11-10 13:13:41 · answer #1 · answered by ~*G*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. Some people stay in denial for so long. Did she tell you how long she has known? Some people are brought up to believe that it is wrong and they try to get over it. They cannot get over it. Is she just experimenting or does she only want to be with women now? You both need to find happiness with someone else because you are not going to have it together. Do not ever put her down to your little girl or make her believe that it is wrong. She is still her mother. I hope that you can move on and not be bitter. Good luck.
2007-11-10 13:24:46 · answer #2 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Joco she is telling him that she is gay. And that is a pretty hard thing to give up or just push away. How can you be happy denying your sexual orientation and living in a hetrosexual relationship? Yes LIFE isn't just about sex, but it becomes a really big deal when it stops with your spouse. And it isn't just a fantasy to be a lesbian, if she really is, then she is. And no one can change that. Not even her.
If she is truly a lesbian, then you have to let her go. Sure you love her, but she doesn't want that kind of relationship. She wants a woman to live her LIFE with, not a man. It is very unfortunate to find yourself in this situation and especially since there is a child involved. Ask her what she wants, find out what that is. Just talk to her and really talk to her.
2007-11-10 13:23:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, first mistake was having a child BEFORE you got married.
Apparently still not married, even after 5 years...
NO stability for your child.
So, your fiance is gay. And you are not. For me, opposites attract. And being together, no matter how OPPOSITE the two of you are, is better than being separated!! You have 5 years together and you have a child together.
Stick together, no matter what your opposite sexual desires are. FAMILY is FAMILY, good and bad. Always better to be together.
2007-11-10 13:57:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
End the relationship, you can never have a good marriage where sex is not a part of it and you will never have a good sex life with her since you know what she prefers.
Find someone who will love you the way you deserve to be loved.
Good Luck
2007-11-10 13:18:32 · answer #5 · answered by mn lady 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do not marry her. Have some serious talk about the daughter and you will eventually have to move on.
2007-11-10 13:19:37 · answer #6 · answered by Titus12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sucks. if she is truly gay then let her be, or she could be lieing and wanting to be with another man. does she show any signs of cheating? if so have her followed, if not then let her be who she wants to be. its america after all, people are free here.
ask if she isnt bi, if she there might be hope still and additional fun in bed!
2007-11-10 13:13:13 · answer #7 · answered by djmixah7 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
same as i said to the other one weither there gay or not why would you stay with someone that doesnt want to be with you in a relationship. i wouldnt..good luck
2007-11-10 13:14:14 · answer #8 · answered by Kat 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should tell her that there is more to life than sex and that she neds to give up that fantacy in her life for her family's sake.
2007-11-10 13:13:18 · answer #9 · answered by joco_johnson 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that she is actually bi. And invite the new friend over. You'll have a great time.
2007-11-10 13:13:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋