2007-11-10 12:55:40 · 23 answers · asked by azprincess 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if your husband is gay then that means he is not into you sexually and without that connection in a marriage there will always be something missing. you should really sit down and evaluate whats going on. one day he may wonder why he is still with you and move on to someone who can satify him in every way and if he is truly gay that's not going to be with you. move on.
2007-11-10 13:00:15 · answer #1 · answered by TNW22 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If hes gay then hes gay. The marriage is like a cover up. If you keep him then its like saying go ahead and cheat on me for the rest of our lives cuz im not what ur looking for cuz i love you. Girl you need to find a husband who is into his wife 1,000% you know what i mean. Thats who he is inside and the marriage is leading a lie. Tell him to come out of the closet if he is gay-then go find u a man.
2007-11-10 14:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs.Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you decide to remain with this man then the two of you would only be roommates who care for one another but it would not be a marriage. This arrangement would need to continue on a strictly platonic basis in order for you to avoid some very serious and/or deadly consequences.
If you truly want a "husband" then you must get a divorce and get on with your life in a healthier, more stable manner BUT ultimately this is a very personal and private decision that no one else can make for you. What do "you" want to do?
2007-11-10 13:24:19 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit him down and talk to him about it.. see if he still has feelings for you as a wife.. if he is just bi or homo.. ask if he has alway felt this way and did he ever act on it..does he use a condom when he did...is he cheating.. if he is can you handle this.. you know if your young..there may come a time in your life like in your 40's or 50' maybe even 60's when he will leave you for a man..would'nt you rather get out now so the both of you can find someone that truely wants to be with them.. another thing.. you could ask him if he would be happier with a man or with you.. is it just the sex he get from the man that he likes.. if it is just that.. get a strap on.. or if he just likes giving.. do some anal..he could be confuse about it right now.. unless he was always this way
2007-11-10 13:30:09 · answer #4 · answered by vis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may still love him but he feels a different type of love for you. He has put your health at risk. He didn’t think about that when he was with his partner. Go get tested. He will only think of you as a close friend but nothen sexually. You deserve to feel love and be completely in love. He’s not the one for you. Your soul mate is out there somewhere.
Good Luck
2007-11-10 13:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by blueyes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you should let him go, it is not fair to either him or you. Don't you think you will want someone someday that is your soulmate, who will give you love the same as you give him? He will never be able to do that and if he stays with you, he will never find true love of his own that he can share with another man.
Good Luck
2007-11-10 13:14:10 · answer #6 · answered by mn lady 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Except that marriage is about having a spouse who should be your best friend and life partner. cheating is cheating girly, I'd toss my hook back in the pond. How can you achieve a higher level of intimacy, and emotional connectedness by sharing your spouse with other partners becuase he wants to have sex with someone other than you.
2007-11-10 13:19:02 · answer #7 · answered by mudpup 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can love someone without being with them. Why would you want to stay with someone who is neglecting you? That's what he's doing - you are being neglected because he is denying you the physical aspect of your relationship. Not on purpose, of course...if you had a penis, he'd be all over you! And, why would you want to be with someone who will be cheating on you, if he isn't already??? If he likes men, and you aren't one, you know he's going to go FIND one.
Love him from a distance, as a friend, a brother...and find someone who can complete you in E-V-E-R-Y aspect of your relationship.
2007-11-10 13:14:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well, as a gay man who was once married to a woman.... are you crazy...lol why wouldnt you keep him..... if he is anything like me you wont have to cook, clean, take care of the kids, do the laundry.... you'll know what to wear ...which fork to eat with...what wine goes with what foods.... the list goes on and on...... and who knows one of his "friends" could have a brother for you lol
2007-11-11 01:31:20 · answer #9 · answered by AZBOY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sucks!
I would dump him. Get a good psychia-trust and find out how I ended up with homosexual as a marriage partner.
By no means would I stay with him.
Your using yourself for him.
2007-11-10 13:16:46 · answer #10 · answered by China Preggo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋