What does it mean when your husband of 6 yrs meet a female and becomes good friend with her and her husband but will never allow you to meet either one,because he says they're his friend and not mine but he also talk to the girl alot on line or the phone but he work and comes home all the time.My heart doesn't believe he is cheating but my mind really make me wonder why he is so secertive.He tells me there only freinds. But I am his wife and why can't I meet this so called friend,what is the big deal. any advice mind wondering,someone please help.
2007-11-10 10:50:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When ever there are secrets, something wrong is going on.
2007-11-10 11:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do dont let this go any further. Have this woman checked out. Where does she work ?, Is she married and a mother ? Where does she live. Maybe ( and this is only a guess ) there is not One Particular woman, but several. They may not even know he is married. He is a selfish man whatever the scenario turns out to be. His wife is his best friend not another woman..Dont take being put off any longer Check it all out
2007-11-10 19:14:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's such a big secret then there is probably a reason. Be honest with yourself. Examine your relationship and see if it stands up to the test. There shouldn't be secrets like this kept between spouses.
2007-11-10 19:04:52 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would follow my heart, your mind can play tricks on you, then I would ask him why he is so secretive about this girl, if they are just friends then he should not have any problem sharing information with you.
2007-11-10 19:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by Terry Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes cheating !!!!!
good friends are fine...HIS good friends are fine...but when he doesnt want to introduce you to them personally, something is wrong. and if knows them in person...and talks on phone and internet with them...yes ..sorry ..hes cheating.
tell your husband ...you dont believe a word he says ..and that he has once choice left... ship up or...ship out.
good luck
2007-11-10 18:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think her husband is around for these meetings.
2007-11-10 19:00:04 · answer #6 · answered by Mulligan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes cheating honey
2007-11-10 19:05:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can't all be friends together there is something wrong-he can either introduce you or lose you
2007-11-10 18:57:44 · answer #8 · answered by suan b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋