i really really like this guy and he likes me everyone in my class and his knows I like him and constantly make fun of us. He keeps asking to talk to me in private so he can ask me out but i get really nervous and shy when he's around me so hes asked me like 5 times and I keep saying no because he always askes when there are tons of people are around me. I get really shy so even if we were alone I wouldn't know what to do any ideas?
2007-11-10 09:47:38 · 12 answers · asked by Barney101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i do like him and he hasn't asked me out yet he just asks to talk to me but when everyone is around the words no just come out even though i want to say yes i keep saying no cuz i get so nervous how can i say yes instead of no?
2007-11-10 09:54:49 · update #1
That's really cute. He thinks so too that part of why he likes you. It's your innocence and you not being an easy catch. That's a good thing. Take things slow like you are. When you get a chance to talk away from everyone else, just listen, he's going to do most of the talking he doesn't seem too shy. Just go with the flow and be yourself. He obviously has good taste. All boys are not into fast girls.
2007-11-10 10:03:59 · answer #1 · answered by bizzi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try going out with other people in a group to a show or out to eat. If you keep turning him down, he will quit asking. Say yes and see what happens. It's obvious that he likes you so there's no reason to be nervous.
2007-11-10 17:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by Diane M 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I can tell you what to do. Get over other people. It really shouldn't matter if other people are in your business or not. Tell other people to mind their business and if you and this guy like each other, make arrangements to meet in some public place and where no one can overhear your conversation and get to know each other. Ask him what kind of things does he like to do. Tell him some things that you like to do. Ask him if you two can do some of these things together, see what he says. Ask him if he likes you. Listen carefully to what he says. Ask him if you two were together and his buddies showed up and wanted him to leave you and go with them, what would he do? These are the kind of questions that make good stimulating conversation and gives you a good idea about if this guy really does like you or not. It also helps you feel more comfortable in engaging in conversation. Good Luck
2007-11-10 18:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by thomchez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi...maybe you could write him a note, ask one of your trusted mates to give it to him or try get his mobile number and text him. If he's asked you five times already then he obviously really like you. When your alone just be yourself, everyone gets nervous its so natural and he'l probably be just as nervous as you. Go for it and good luck
2007-11-10 17:54:25 · answer #4 · answered by Jackie B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't care what anybody else thinks. i knwo thats a hard thing to do but u like this guy and its cause peer pressure that u haven't said yes. if u feel nervous around other then accept his offer to talk in private.
2007-11-10 17:51:08 · answer #5 · answered by Mmmbop103 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over the shyness and say yes the next time he asks.
2007-11-10 17:50:57 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Šωèé†íé♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with him 2 a private place and say yes unless you dont like him like that then just say i only like you as a friend! good luck!
2007-11-10 17:52:26 · answer #7 · answered by Aria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm....try this, if he tries again, ask him if you can go somewhere more private so you can think about it and answer him. if you really wanna go out with him tho, it shouldn't matter what other people think!\
hope i helped. and good luck =D
2007-11-10 17:53:30 · answer #8 · answered by XxTaylorTragedyxX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time just dont think just say yessss
2007-11-10 17:50:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a link to this question.... if he really likes you he will understand
2007-11-10 17:52:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋